[FR] F-Close with HB8.5, but I need your help seddit!

kdmo · 2011-06-27T23:44:16+00:00

First thing I gather from your post is that she's coming over again to hook up again. She's giving you LMRs because she doesn't want to seem easy. From your report, I'm guessing when you met up with her last week, it was the first time you've seen her in years. Anyways, just think about it, she gave in last week, why wouldn't a repeat happen this week? She knows what'll happen when she goes to your house to "hang out;" no, she's coming over to hook up as long as you don't blatantly F things up.

puaCurveBall · 2011-06-28T16:50:38+00:00

TLDR; Girl txt you for booty call, you get laid.

If a girl calling you out of the blue at 10pm to come over isn't a slam dunk, I don't know what is. Hardly requires any game, I think you were overthinking things.

2011-06-28T03:59:33+00:00

If she's giving you LMR, you could always break it. Don't whine or anything, if she says "we shouldn't do this" or whatever, just say "fine", get up and go to your computer and check your mail. As soon as she sees that, she'll try to get you to come back to bed and you can start up the foreplay into sex again.

This seems like more of a r/sex topic than an r/seduction one though. Try asking over there and see what other advice they might be able to give you. Other than that, I hope this advice helps and you find the answers you're looking for.

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-28T06:07:39+00:00

Both of the girls I've pulled home did that, most girls do. LMR is when you're in bed about to have sex and she starts pretending she's not down. Just stay unreactive: "I'm not supposed to do this we're both seeing other people" "Yeah, we totally shouldn't be doing this" then keep doing whatever you're doing.

"I don't know about this" **ignore

"I don't usually do this" "Me neither"

Don't let it emotionally phase you and agree with it or ignore it. Don't just not let it show, actually do not give a fuck that she's giving you that resistance. It's fucking meaningless, it's always on.

You had sex, she'll probably put up less resistance, either way it doesn't really matter.

trollforthelols · 2011-06-28T12:24:01+00:00

I remember reading a field report (I forget if it was here) where the guy said he was moving to a new town, and just told every single girl he knew that he was moving. Before he left, he ended up having sex with like 4 girls who had apparently always wanted a piece of him. Makes me want to move out of town!

Anyway, as 3fth4nd said, I can't imagine she would put up LMR next time since you've already had sex with her.

Also, I'm not sure if neg means what you think it means.

solocup · 2011-06-28T15:03:29+00:00

I tease her about it, seeing an opportunity to neg, saying if she wanted to hang out with me, she should give this hanging out session her full attention

This isn't really teasing or negging - it's being needy. If you're going to point it out, maybe something like a deadpan "Miss, I'm going to have to ask you to step into the lobby if you're going to text during the movie."

I put my hand on her knee and tell her to text the guy she’ll talk to him later, she’ll be bonding with me tonight.

This was good.

2011-06-28T21:04:30+00:00

This is simple. Just give LMR yourself. Act like it's really wrong and you shouldn't be doing it. Obviously she is coming over to fuck you, so allow her the illusion that the chemistry between you is totally irresistible, so she doesn't have to feel easy.

Title	[FR] F-Close with HB8.5, but I need your help seddit!
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Upvotes	4
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Date	June 27, 2011 11:21 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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