A challenge to all of the internet PUA gurus who think they're capable of schooling a square

2011-08-12T07:45:24+00:00

Well I'm 5'6, so throw away the height excuse. I've met many PUA's, instructors your height so yea..

Also you're Black dude, you genetically have some swag so don't fear ;-)

From the tone of your post, it's going to be a long journey. First thing is to be un-attached to the outcome. Seems like you're tying success to dates / getting laid. This is a journey towards self-improvement. Women will come when you step it up.

So you're chubby. Get on a exercise regime and eat healthier. If you're a nerd / stoner I'm sterotyping that you have bad fashion so work on that.

You're 20 years old, are you in college? If not, I'm sure you have some friends that are in college. You should definitely start working towards building a social circle and joining college parties.

For social circle, the best people to be-friend are the "connectors." The really social people that always seems to know everyone and what's going on.

When you're at parties, just go up to people "Hey, I don't think we've met yet, I'm Mack" or a simple "Hey, how's it going?". Just talk to the chicks, establish some common interests, and ask her out.

But overall I feel you shouldn't focus too much on the "pick-up" aspects for now. Work on just being more social and improving yourself first.

2StandardDeviations · 2011-08-12T15:48:53+00:00

1 - Go to gym

2 - Improve diet

3 - Man up, nobody can give it to you, you have to make it happen yourself. You're going to have to make decision to change and iprove yourself, and it's not going to be easy. It's either that, or suffer horribly the rest of your life.

Improve your body with the gym, improve you soul and social skills with the tools on the side bar. You'll get out what you put in.

If you fail to improve your life, it's because you chose not to put in the work.

l3fth4nd · 2011-08-13T03:08:18+00:00

Approach like mad, aim for hundreds of rejections per month. At the beginning you should be pushing for 20-40 approaches per night. Go out 4-5 nights a week. Approach every girl you're attracted to. Do it solo if you can't find wings or friends. Do it sober. You will almost certainly get laid within 3 months, you will also be about fearless around women. If you're in the US, get a fake. It will look like you are making no progress at times, keep approaching.

Watch this: Jeffy Show 2.

I did it, I went from approximate recluse to laying 2 girls this last week, one of them a 9.5 stunningly intelligent girl and having close calls every night I go out. It took me four months and I'm still improving steadily.

targetLocked · 2011-08-12T07:27:38+00:00

Pretty much everything on here. Work on your approach and try threading through some conversations. Get out of the house and do things with/around other people. If the "chubby" thing is getting you down, start an exercise regimen and try a modified diet. If there's anything you want to improve on in your life, just do it. Read things around here as well; I find it to be helpful.

2011-08-12T07:39:27+00:00

read sidebar

come back with specifics that you're having problems with.

Title	A challenge to all of the internet PUA gurus who think they're capable of schooling a square
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Date	August 12, 2011 7:10 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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