[FR] cute japanese girl daygame, but i don't feel like she's feeling it

2011-09-23T02:55:30+00:00

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boyfrienddestroyers · 2011-09-23T01:18:25+00:00

When do you plan to kiss her?

smokeshack · 2011-09-23T05:00:24+00:00

Hi, I'm a sedditor in Japan. I'd say Japanese girls are less likely to initiate things than American girls, and less comfortable with physical affection. The level of kino you've described would be considered foreplay in Japan (which is not to say you're doing something wrong there; Japanese guys are pussies for the most part). Other than that, the fact that she's studying abroad tells me more than the fact that she's Japanese. She's definitely a lot cooler and more open-minded than 90% of Japanese girls, simply because she has the courage to study in a foreign culture.

You're probably also underestimating her comprehension of English by a wide margin. Most foreign language learners understand way more of their second language than they can produce fluently, and if she passed the entrance exams to get into a foreign university, she probably understands enough English to get a job as an English teacher over here.

As to your attempts at speaking Japanese with her: knock it off. Nothing annoys me more than Japanese people trying to throw in three words of badly pronounced English to try to impress me, and I have no doubt it's the same for her. She'll be much more appreciative of you if you help her with her English. If you want to move over here, then by all means, start learning Japanese, but don't go picking up little phrases to try to impress her. First off, she won't be impressed, and might take it as an insult to her English abilities; second, you're obviously trying to impress her, which lowers your value in her eyes. Third, chotto ikouya doesn't mean shit. 「どこか行こうよ」(dokoka ikō yo) is the phrase you were looking for. She likes you enough to let that one slide, but if you're constantly coming up to her with crappy, half-remembered phrases in Japanese, she's going to get sick of it fast.

boyfrienddestroyers · 2011-09-23T01:09:18+00:00

When do you plan to kiss her?

IV-65536 · 2011-09-23T01:24:00+00:00

maybe learn a phrase in japanese that says "So how did you like playing the balls (testicles) yesterday?" but say it as if you meant basketballs and that you didnt know

Title	[FR] cute japanese girl daygame, but i don't feel like she's feeling it
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Date	September 23, 2011 12:59 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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