How do I recreate that playful spontaneousness where you both act like little kids?

william1987 · 2011-10-15T10:49:32+00:00

First of all you've got to set up a general atmosphere of playfulness with smaller little things, so that when you try stealing something off her she will be in a playful mood already and chase after you. You can't start out serious with a girl and then suddenly switch to being silly and stealing stuff, it's just weird. Don't start a date with a girl by asking boring interview questions, she will think she's in a business meeting, be juvenile from the beginning and it sets the context for how you want her to behave.

Start out by giving funny answers to questions, and teasing a lot like kids do to each other on the playground.

Do silly retarded shit like sticking out your tongue, high fives, playful arm punches, nipple pinches, thumb wars, animal noises, spontaneous singing/dancing, push her into things (gently), put drink ice cubes down her top, give piggybacks, take her on a date to the park and play on swings/roundabout, splashing water... you know all the stuff you used to do when you were in kindergarden.

Then you can dial it up with bigger stuff like stealing her hat/scarf and wearing it. This works in reverse too... one time I was out clubbing wearing mickey mouse ears, and a bunch of girls came up behind me stole the ears and one girl wore them the whole night while she was grinding her ass on me.

But be warned, don't do this silly stuff 100% of the time, just sprinkle it in here and there. Don't want to come across toooooo crazy.

Not all girls will be into this, so dial it back according to how she responds positively or negatively. Some girls are very serious all the time and won't get it. Other girls will get it immediately and play along.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-10-14T20:30:41+00:00

Being playful/ having a playful conversation requires two things (which are really similar). 1. Be in a playful state. Let her feed off of ur energy. This comes from being a leader. 2. Be in the moment. If you overthink it, it won't work.

TheSOB88 · 2011-10-14T19:32:24+00:00

It's definitely cool when this happens. Just happened to me recently. I guess you just have to make sure the girl knows you're cool with being goofy and physical, and initiating yourself is a good way to do that. I guess they call it play for a reason

Twatless · 2011-10-15T11:28:24+00:00

Pinch her ass as you steal her hat and run away slowly

TofuAttack · 2011-10-15T12:18:07+00:00

i had this relationship with a hb7 a while ago, she would often try to push me into other people or walls etc or get infront of me and just stop to annoy me and she'll sometimes try to hit me (playfully) and we'll end up play fighting, sometimes when we walk towards each other in the paths we'll play chicken and we'll end up just running into each other kinda. (this is at school btw) i was just starting to learn about game then but i guess i kind of dropped the ball, and she doesn't seem interested in me anymore, she seems very nervous around me lately

2011-10-14T22:15:10+00:00

Please go elsewhere to live out your pedophile fantasies, thanks.

Title	How do I recreate that playful spontaneousness where you both act like little kids?
Author	WcO
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 14, 2011 6:00 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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