It seems as if seddit has begun linking to "inner game" stuff quite a lot. That's nice, but now I'm missing all those links that hinted to behavioral tips.

Maybe this kind of approach/perspective has a name, but I don't know what it is.

Examples that I can think of right now:

  • During an interaction, moving your body away (putting distance) from the person, forcing her/him to move closer to you if the interaction is to continue

  • Various body postures and their effects on the interaction (like mirroring, positioning of hands, arms, feet, chest etc)

  • Body movements that both push and pull someone (like when you hug, then actually push her/him away with your chest "without you noticing that you just did that")

  • Various ways to look into someone else's eyes

  • Using kino in combination with body gestures (looking away while touching too strongly etc)

tl;dr Do you know of PUAs / names of perspectives / links / websites that focus on "the body" and "gestures" specifically?