The SPAM Approacher

frogma · 2011-10-20T13:50:25+00:00

I disagree with what it said about value. Value's not vague at all if you have a brain and can understand the meaning behind it.

The SPAM approacher guy probably isn't offering much value in the first place- that's the issue, it isn't value itself.

But I agree with the SPAM approach in terms of talking to everyone. You should be doing that. The guy who wrote this article sounds like he's either the grandmaster of PUAs or someone who doesn't have much actual experience with going out. The truth of the matter is, on a good night, you might only need to talk to 2 girls before finding one you really vibe with and being able to take her home. On any other night, it aint gonna work like that, no matter what this guy says about the "ideal" situation.

The shotgun approach is equally bad if it means you're just running up to every girl in the club, hitting on them, and bailing. But the shotgun approach definitely works if your goal is simply to have a good time with a girl- if you have a good personality and shit, you're gonna end up chilling with her for more than 10 minutes, and then it's no longer really a "shotgun" approach.

It sounds like the SPAM guy is a guy who gets constantly blown out until he finds a girl who just accepts it. The only difference between that approach and my approach is that most girls are cool with me- I don't get blown out by 10 girls before approaching the 11th, I just talk to 10 girls and then go talk to the 11th. They're all still viable options, but I'm looking for a girl who's right for me in that given night. Most nights, that won't be the first girl I talk to, or the second, or even the third. I can afford to be picky because I'm talking to multiple girls. The SPAM guy has a terrible mindset and that's what fucks him up- it's not the fact that he's talking to a bunch of girls.

TheOuts1der · 2011-10-20T05:16:58+00:00

Love this. In stark contrast to another front-paged post right now, My guide to the bars...pretty comprehensive. Thoughts?

Title	The SPAM Approacher
Author	mikeindeed
Upvotes	8
Comments	2
Date	October 19, 2011 2:33 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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