How to react to girlfriend cheating during soft-next?

failingtheturingtest · 2018-09-10T00:46:21+00:00

Next. To move the fuck on.

Soft next. To move the fuck on quietly.

Hard next. To move the fuck on while burning bridges.

Whether or not you HAD broken up with her verbally, you had nexted her. The issue is that you threw something away and now that you're trying to go back through your rubbish, you've found out it's gone bad.

To next, you have to be willing to walk away. She did, you weren't willing to. Now you've played yourself.

Bruchibre · 2018-09-10T04:29:40+00:00

Beg for her forgiveness and marry her. She’s a keeper.

Throwaway-242424 · 2018-09-10T00:51:23+00:00

Nexting is just that, nexting. The message you sent was that you were demoting her, but what you meant to send was some silly game that she beat you at. You played yourself here.

bluefingerblue · 2018-09-09T22:58:40+00:00

You’re not broken up until it’s verbalized. If it wasn’t verbalized, she cheated on you. Leave her and never speak to her again - don’t give her that satisfaction.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-09-10T00:24:38+00:00

Block her on everything.

Morphs_ · 2018-09-10T05:22:53+00:00

Now you understand why a soft next has its problems when applied in an LTR. Girls can pull this shit and try to get away with it.

Anyway, demote to plate silently. If she ever gives you shit say "I thought we were non exclusive FwBs now".

Batmanforreal2 · 2018-09-10T06:18:38+00:00

Well you feel cheated on so, hard next.

Framexemplary · 2018-09-10T01:33:51+00:00

Funny how all misunderstanding serve her. So she had a few days to play around and hopped on the carousel. NEXT.

daytonbull90 · 2018-09-10T03:55:09+00:00

Ya who cares, you were leaving anyway, if she fucked you during the phase-out without telling you she fucked a random, that's pretty shitty and you should get yourself checked. Otherwise move on, the quickest way over a girl is under three more.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-09-10T05:55:33+00:00

Bruh? Do u really have to ask?

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-09-10T07:24:08+00:00

She is right you know. She didnt cheat. You are trying to play games. Whats one of the biggest and main rules in red pill?

Dont play games!

RedHoodhandles · 2018-09-10T07:48:31+00:00

Marry her, have some kids and live happily ever after. What else should you do...?

triggeringsjws247 · 2018-09-10T08:27:19+00:00

lol imagine caring about this shit

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2018-09-10T15:41:54+00:00

LTRs are explicit. You have an explicit conversation to become an item. You have an explicit conversation (or an angry text) that confirms the LTR is no more.

If you didn’t have that conversation and she sucked some other dick, she cheated.

There is no frame in the world for you if you accept her back and puff out your chest – “Don’t do it again!”

ppanthero · 2018-09-10T16:12:45+00:00

Hard next.

KKpaperstacks · 2018-09-10T00:38:47+00:00

If you have other plates it shouldn’t really matter... Upgrade her to a hard next and fill her position

Title	How to react to girlfriend cheating during soft-next?
Author	onpuzzle
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	September 9, 2018 10:28 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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