Just curious, how many married men are lurkers in Seddit, and how has what you have learned affected your marriage?

cdentel · 2011-12-06T23:06:16+00:00

Well, apparently none.

ilostitattheclub · 2011-12-07T05:59:01+00:00

Not married but I have a girlfriend. I've done some kino, and other random mentioned moves on her to make her super duper horny.

OtherMikeP · 2011-12-07T03:28:51+00:00

I'm not married but I have a girlfriend, I read out of curiosity some of the stuff on here seems like bunk other stuff sounds pretty feasible. I've never tried anything I red on here but I find it interesting.

benjaminjsanders · 2012-02-09T19:56:02+00:00

I lurk here, and have read a couple of the more common books (the game, etc), but working full time, three kids, and a wife that goes to school at night mean I don't get out much.

My wife and I are completely open and she wouldn't mind at all if I found a girlfriend, I just have not gone out and made it happen yet. When I have tried I have gotten a lot of shit for being married. Turns out most of the girls I go for are apprehensive about that.

Mostly, lurking in the community at large has just made me more determined to get a weekend free and go out on some approaches. I have improved my style, (subscribed to /r/malefashionadvice) etc.

herpsderps2011 · 2011-12-07T04:34:58+00:00

When I saw this headline it kind of creeped me out for a second.

I'm 28, married 3 years. I ran across this subreddit about a month ago and then watched a number of videos from sasha (he's all about direct daygame as you prolly know). So last thursday I was going to go to a coffee shop to work (my day job is slinging php) and there are always women coming and going-- so I was like fuck it, I'm going to take a shower and put in a half-assed effort.

When I got to the coffeeshop I sat down and it was really busy and the few women that were there were not accessible. So I go out to the porch to smoke a bowl and there is this curly haired brunette [6] standing there. She's was smoking a homemade cigarette so I asked if it was alright if I smoke a J. We live in a liberal place but people don't smoke in public so I was a bad boy :-) We hit it off -- turns out she got stranded at a friends overnight without a car and was now waiting for the rain to stop so she could catch a bus home. So we're hitting it off and I give her some weed to add to her cigarette and kinoing like crazy. She finally decides to walk through the rain to the bus stop so she tears holes in a trash bag and puts it over her head. And I'm just like "oh my gosh you are so cute, I just want to put you in my pocket and take you home" -- she was like "okay!" and throws her arms around my neck. I'm leaning against a railing and just reach down and slowly grab her ass. My mind was going like WTF I CANT BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING. At this point I didn't really want to drive her across town (the rain sucked and seemed pretty dangerous) and wasn't sure what to do so I just played it off like a joke and she ran off into the rain to catch the bus.

So I go back to the coffeeshop later that afternoon and I'm just chilling on a couch. There is this girl sitting straight across from me in a chair but there's a dude at the table next to her blocking her in so I'm like, hmm, I'll be patient. A couple minutes later this dirty blonde [8] walks in and sits down at the other end of the couch. I'm like, HMMM. I'm really emboldened from my earlier success so I just dive right in. At first she acted REALLY standoffish, I didn't give a shit about failing so I was like push-pull-push-pull. I helped her figure out how to burn some music CDs for this mixtape she was making.. while we talked about her DIVORCE which finalized in October, how long she has lived in the neighborhood, etc. So it was about dinner time and I was like I'm going to the cafe next door for dinner and you ARE going to join me. Welcome to my frame bitch.

So we have dinner, kill a bottle of wine. We talk about her shitty marriage, how she's now worried about paying bills, etc... I basically give her all of the emotional engagement she never got from her husband :) Eventually talk turns to sex and I end up getting out my phone and pretending like I'm doing a survey... I listed different sex acts and then gave funny multiple choice answers. Totally bullshitted the survey then teased her for being sexually boring. After we killed the wine I was like you seem really tense, we should smoke a bowl. Easy sell. Her place was within walking distance but she had driven, so she made some lame excuse about me meeting her at the condo in 15 minutes. Kind of weird, but I was like hmm, I bet she wants to like get there first to cleanup or something. I kind of freak out because I'm like, am I really going to go through with this?! I honestly had not thought about it before because I didn't think anything would actually happen. I couldn't resist.

When I get to her place (its really nice, she's going to miss her husbands $$$!) we start smoking a bowl on the couch... five minutes later we're on her bed and ten minutes after that she's sucking my dick. it was one of the most liberating sexual experiences of my life. I just made up crazy shit for her to do, told her to do it, and she LOVED IT. I think her ex was a pussy. Missionary finish and shot on her stomach.

Then came the waves of regret. I felt horrible so I told her I had a headache and went home. Since then I've been on a rollercoaster of SHAME and THRILL. My wife is so super sweet but we just don't have as much spice as we probably could. On sunday we had some really great sex. It was kind of hard for me to get off but I think she enjoyed how aggressive I was. I've sent just a few txt messages back and forth with my new friend. I know it's only a recipe for disaster but it's just so tempting. She thinks I live in another state and was just in town for work and she wants to see me the next time I'm back "in town."

I have no idea what's next. Seduction does work though. It's amazing how women respond to dominant men-- kind of scary really. I probably just got lucky, but now I feel like I have a new superpower... that I can NEVER USE.

So yeah, there are some married lurkers here. :-)

Title	Just curious, how many married men are lurkers in Seddit, and how has what you have learned affected your marriage?
Author	WHARRGARBLLL
Upvotes	18
Comments	31
Date	December 6, 2011 10:09 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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