I'm a really sarcastic dude, and it's something I don't really like about myself. However, I feel like it can be used really well with girls in the banter phase, but I'm not very good at calibrating it or knowing when to turn it on/off. How do you guys deal with not being overly sarcastic (I'm sure I'm not the only one with this problem), and banter/flirt without relying on it?