How do I become better at giving value?

2011-12-22T11:52:18+00:00

Forget everything you have learned about AMOGS and how to fuck them over.

It might get you the girl, in the short-term, but it will make you fuck up ALOT of relationships with other dudes that would get you alot more girls in later life. I would only pull that shit, if he does it first.

And also. I think you might be addicted. What you are writing comes across as an addict.

By which I mean: You are willing to sacrifice things that are dear to you, to satisfy your addiction. And/or willing to do stuff that you would never do if not for the addiction.

Try to find out WHY you feel you HAVE to go out picking up girls all the time, and not hang out with mates and just relax. Is it a poor self-image maybe?

This comes from a guy that knows he's addicted to the same shit, but have started to master his addiction.

luciiz · 2011-12-22T17:32:40+00:00

You have to be the best version of yourself. "AMOGing" in the PUA community is flawed, as it assumes that you to "out-alpha" an AMOG by doing such things as back-patting, dominant handshake, taking control of the frame all the time etc.

This is the opposite of what a guy completely comfortable in his reality is, as that behaviour shows insecurity (especially when the AMOG is consciously doing this to try and be percieved as the AMOG to "attract tha laydeez"). You should realize you are strong enough to hold a woman's attention when you want to, but can allow others to temporarily "AMOG", all the while feeling completely comfortable in yourself that you are not the particular "Alpha" at this time. If you do show insecurity by reacting to the AMOG's dickwad behaviour, you'll instantly go down in a woman's estimation.

If you are truly comfortable in yourself, you'll realize he'll go away soon and you'll have the tact to know how to make it awkward that fact that he is here intruding in your group AMOGing everyone. You can do this by body language - turning away from him, and avoiding eye contact and/or bringing up a conversation just between you and the girl. The AMOG will get the message.

However inevitably you'll come across another alpha who doesn't try to AMOG everyone else, but you can tell he's the alpha by just the way he projects himself, is friendly to every one and has an outspoken, hilarious personality. These people can rarely be beaten, and is what you should strive to try and be like.

Title	How do I become better at giving value?
Author	RIPterriers
Upvotes	6
Comments	2
Date	December 21, 2011 9:43 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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