How can I make my dates more fun?

swamy_g · 2011-11-29T01:59:35+00:00

Staring contest.. be sure to smile and make funny eyes, just no blinking. Works like a charm. Gets the awkward out of the date. For best results try after a few drinks

watEvery1_isThinking · 2011-11-28T23:21:04+00:00

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Epoh · 2011-11-29T01:28:37+00:00

If you wnna f-close, then unless your taking her to an orgy, your going to have to make it clear to her that that is what you want throu commu ication and almost no venue will bring you that. Be a little more forward wit what you want in kino and expression

Make dates more fun by being more fun! Joke more often, talk about subjects that excite you both and often those subjects have an activity you could do together!

reformed_PUA · 2011-11-29T02:52:28+00:00

Just think outside the "coffee" movie box.

sure, you gotta meet and get to know each other a bit, but start that first meeting with some fun "get to know you" questions; like: * What's your perfect day look like?
* What's something you did when you were a kid that you should have gotten in trouble for (or arrested) but didn't? (exploring her sense of adventure and risk taking)

Then... on Day 2 or 3, after some initial comfort is built, and she feels at least safe with you, you can go out on adventures.

One of my best dates in the last year was having dinner or lunch with a gal (at my place) then going to the book store to read racy parts from romantic novels to each other. It was really quite hot. We'd pick up a random romance novel and race to find a lusty scene to share. After that, we went back to my place, and I f-closed.

I live in a wine region, so wine tasting is always in order.

Hobo date; grab a cheap bottle (not too cheap) of wine and a brown paper bag (ghetto bag), then go drink it in the park or by a lake. You get extra points because at most places, drinking in public is against the law. Then, you're also in a nice spot for making out.

Cooking is always good; a DHV, and you've got her at your place. Start simple, and develop a few signature dishes.

Teach her something: What do you like to do? Shoot pool? Shoot Guns? Believe it or not, yes, I've taken chicks shooting, and they love it. serious DHV.

Here's my basic take: you still need the first date for rapport, chemistry and building comfort / trust. After that, the world is your oyster. Just don't be boring! There are tons of things to do.

discretelyarobot · 2011-11-29T05:54:21+00:00

2 things: Decide what you are looking for. Is it a one time fuck? A FWB? A fairy tale? Are you looking in the right place for this? Are you setting the right frame for this to happen in?

Sounds to me like you don't know what you want, bro. Wandering through mist is for the weak. We must the beacons of guiding light; all illuminating our own decisive path.

starkistuna · 2011-11-29T12:38:57+00:00

have sex on them.

2011-11-30T08:29:40+00:00

I just have to say that I've had some pretty awesome first dates.

One guy took me bowling and then we went glow in the dark mini golfing and on one of the holes he pulled me aside and kissed me.

Then there was one who took me out to this awesome art gallery and then out to dinner because he remembered I loved art. We went out for dinner and drinks after and then back to his place.

I say that you should think of something specific to her interests. If women know that you're listening to things about them that make them unique, you're more likely to get in her pants because you're not just like every other guy.

lingual_panda · 2011-11-29T00:33:54+00:00

I'm having a bit of a problem with this too. It got better after I turned 21 since there are some really great bars and other venues in my area, but before when I just had the restaurant/coffee/smoothie option, stuff got boring really quick.

Since I'm a girl I might start doing stupid stuff like taking the guy shopping so I can try on clothes in front of him and going to the Apple store to put stupid videos up or something. Like Nyan cat. Stuff I would do with my friends but with more kino and maybe we'll be making out by the end.

I think especially since I know the city fairly well and there are a lot of slightly older guys with jobs who are new to the area, I might score a bit in the free drinks category if I introduce them to some nice bars and stuff.

Man, I'm so looking forward to winter break. Time to cut calories.

Sorry if this doesn't help.

testmypatience · 2011-11-29T01:46:47+00:00

Mind altering drugs? Costumes? Pick a character and stay in character the entire time? Pull a George Castanza and do the exact opposite of what your gut tells you? Wear a diaper and fill it as the date goes on?

Ok these are terrible but I was bored. Honestly it seems that you end up doing the same shit over and over again. Even if you do become quite varied you are still going to end up in routine questions, etc. Being truly unique and different in each date is a pain in the ass. The only reason you should do it is to entertain yourself and not to impress the girl. Fuck impressing the girl. Impress yourself.

Hm.. I should get that as a tatoo. I don't like tatoos but I think "Impress yourself" is a great one.

Title	How can I make my dates more fun?
Author	RIPterriers
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	November 28, 2011 10:44 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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