To everyone going out tonight alone (for the first time)...

2012-01-21T08:13:07+00:00

I have some amazing nights when by myself and never a bad night.

Going by yourself also allows YOU to be opened much more easier. From experience I think I get approached 10x more when by myself I'd presume because it's embarrassing for the girl to approach when you're with friends. So remember to always give your self the opportunity to be opened, if you sit down for a while make sure there are open seats.

Talk to everyone, use funny situational openers on potential wing-men and then ask them to hit a 2 set with you.

Make sure you keep tempo all night.

Sometimes I do this which seems to work for me.

If you don't look like a creep, you can play the mysterious card. Sometime I just prefer to go out people watch, chill and listen to the music. Sit around with the mind set of a Buddhist and ignoring girls as they walk past.

DrLio · 2012-01-21T07:18:37+00:00

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2012-01-21T09:58:32+00:00

You always feel awkward at first, but if you break through that (and realize everyone isn't watching you and thinking your creepy for being alone), you have your best luck ever. That's been my experience.

And believe me, I was rather terrified to go out alone at first. And I still feel a little weird at first. But it gives you no other option besides talking to a girl. You have nothing else to do, and no one to mess it up for you. Good deal.

DrLio · 2012-01-21T11:33:55+00:00

I go out alone more often that with company. Yet I found out to be more fun when I get girls to get out with me, and they automatically give me social proof... nights are more fun, and there's a lot less work.

Xstream2 · 2012-01-21T04:13:09+00:00

getting used to going out alone has been one of my biggest breakthroughs, because now I can improve my game whenever I want (and not have to worry about my friends flaking)

Title	To everyone going out tonight alone (for the first time)...
Author	Xstream2
Upvotes	10
Comments	24
Date	January 21, 2012 4:07 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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