Good response for when women flake on dates?

revbobdobbs · 2012-02-01T22:58:56+00:00

is there a good response that might make her change her mind?

Take a good, hard look at the thought process that lead you to ask that question.

The underlying frame here is: "if I can just do or say the right thing, then maybe she will like me enough to meet up with me"

Is that a frame that you honestly want to keep?

Women don't respond to lines or tactics as much as they respond to who and what you are. If she doesn't value you enough to show up, then no tactic will be useful.

So change yourself. Start by changing your values. Drop the value that you need to do or say the right thing for a girl to like you. Instead, ask yourself what value she can offer you.

If she flakes, then she offers you no value. Delete number and move on.

CorpulentBanana · 2012-02-01T22:17:10+00:00

Move on.

2012-02-01T23:25:39+00:00

I don't like the mentality you see a lot here that you need to have some snappy comeback for every situation, and keep pushing with each girl indefinitely.

The correct response is to delete her number and go find another one, assuming she hasn't suggested an alternative time to meet.

Seduceher · 2012-02-02T03:04:49+00:00

Flakes happen

Today I just totally flaked on a girl, but her demands are just too much for my interest.

One time a girl flaked on me for a month, came back to fuck my brains out, and is flaking on me again

our_glass · 2012-02-02T05:16:57+00:00

If she flakes she flakes. Not worth your time... or money :) just move on.

BUT at that point I just poke a little fun. Saying things like "called it." or "No worries, snowflake." Just to see how they respond.

Title	Good response for when women flake on dates?
Author	gabriot
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	February 1, 2012 7:40 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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