Okay so here's what's happening. I am living with my girlfriend. Currently I am signed up to a class that I pay for, but I am barely learning anything as it turns out that the class level is too low for me.

That causes me to miss most days. I go to class like twice a week maybe. The rest of the days I just don't go and I don't do that much instead. I stay at home, or just go for a swim etc. This situation has been ongoing for a month now, and the class finally ends 27th of september. I'm going on vacation in October with my girlfriend and then I will sign up for a more advanced class.

Today my girlfriend was acting distant and annoyed with me. I asked her what's her problem, and she said she was angry at me for not going to class and not doing anything much instead. I told her why I don't go, and she said yeah okay but it's not like you are learning on your own either, if you say t he level is too low but you also don't do anything by yourself it's a waste and you just stay at home.

Admittedly, I relocated and I'm in a new country where I don't speak the language well yet and don't have a car, and I'm not in a big city. So more or less if I don't go to school I am a bit stuck. I tried to argue that I did study a bit on my own but she shut that down saying that studying two or 3 times in a month doesn't make up for not doing anything. She said she was annoyed with my attitude and disappointed.

So yeah. NGL, I behaved like a lazy slob and now I've been scolded for it and frankly I'm in the wrong. Now, what should I do? Should I just go to the goddamn class even if it's mostly a waste of time so that I get out of the house and not lose frame even more by giving her more reasons to see me as a beta? Or should I let her suck it up until the end of the month.