How can I stop giving so much of a fuck?

2012-02-21T07:23:49+00:00

Breathe deeply and slowly five times, say to yourself in your most confident voice "Everything is going to be fine", then occupy yourself with something else. If you lack "something else" join some club that is semi-relevant to your interests. If nothing else, you'll meet new people. Of course, if you want to reach the pinnacle of no fucks given, you could take up meditation.

var_Helpdesk_--_CBF · 2012-02-21T13:09:06+00:00

I Know the feel bro :(

Nexism · 2012-02-21T15:09:47+00:00

You're not comfortable with yourself, you don't validate with yourself, you keep thinking that your mood and happiness is determined by how other people view you (which shouldn't be the case) and hence you have no control over your happiness.

GUMMERSMAGOO · 2012-02-21T06:50:06+00:00

What do you overthink about?

revbobdobbs · 2012-02-21T09:59:31+00:00

Do you work in a field where you have to predict outcomes? (Engineering, programming, management).

Do you do any regular physical activity - sports, martial arts, gym?

Do you meditate at all?

RedErin · 2012-02-21T17:16:59+00:00

This is common. It'll take lots of practice to break it. Do some more reading about the three second rule and rejection therapy. But most importantly, get out in the field and start sarging.

boozeboobsbudbbq · 2012-02-22T16:13:57+00:00

I posted a little article I wrote earlier in this sub.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ptxju/some_of_my_discoveries_about_achieving_mindset/

I call it the mindset.

Galahadxs · 2012-02-21T17:06:57+00:00

Funnily enough I consider myself pretty natural but after reading 7 or 8 PUA books I started reaction seeking and overthinking everything... Just stay in control and keep repeating "Release yourself from attachment to the desired outcome" Worked for me... and overall be cocky and fun!

Title	How can I stop giving so much of a fuck?
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Date	February 21, 2012 6:34 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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