Need advice on how to game in bars/clubs

NickTDS · 2012-03-14T17:50:21+00:00

If you're at a club, dance with her for a while and then move her away from the music. Usually by the bar, lounge area, or the section furthest from the dance floor is talkable.
Project from your diaphragm. When you yell from your head voice (throat) it doesn't carry well. It's not necessarily about the loudness as much as it's resonance. Learn diaphragmatic breathing and practice speaking from your chest.
When you can't hear her, move to her side and stand closer. You can be physically very close early on as long as it's not confrontational (in her face). It's so much easier to listen and it makes it simple to get physical contact in, too.

bcktth · 2012-03-14T18:05:07+00:00

body language, it's all about the body language to engage a woman into conversation. By simply waving your hand as she stares at you for more then 2 seconds you've already opened the opportunity to converse with her.

2012-03-14T17:17:29+00:00

Much less verbal interaction, although IMO bars are better than true clubs for those of us that talk and don't do a lot of dancing.

sillymallard · 2012-03-15T03:53:33+00:00

This is a good question. Usually, physical game is the way to go in these venues. Think about the body language you use when you are gaming and show this, but without words.

Title	Need advice on how to game in bars/clubs
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Date	March 14, 2012 5:10 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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