If at first you don't kino, are you screwed?

TofuTofu · 2012-03-20T21:30:47+00:00

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2012-03-21T09:25:32+00:00

So, I think I might help you in my own way. First, I'm not a physical person, I don't mind touching people, but I'm not prone to it and I don't really like being touched. If you're doing NPU, then you should do the "hand on lower back" when talking, maybe playful hug or "u mah girl" hold (I personally need alcool and a high level of not giving a fuck to achieve that).

A recent event has, however, taught me something. Whenever I tried kinoing this girl I know, she would act distant. As soon as I stoped and started not being so awkward in trying to kino her, she opened up again. Now I EC the fuck out of her, dropping smiles and conveying a little intent here and there. It is working wonders. Really, she's standing closer, she's matching my BL, I caught her looking at me and smiling when I "wasn't looking", etc.

So what's up with kino with her now ? Well, I don't do it, but when I'll do it will carry much much more intent, and it will count much more.

You can try stating more intent from now on, but if you don't feel comfortable touching you don't need to over do it.

Incruentus · 2012-03-20T22:36:09+00:00

I used to not kino at all during first and sometimes second dates. Personal touching issues I had to get over.

I never thought it was weird b/c I didn't know any other way to behave. But I know for a fact I lost at least one girl back then due to not touching her b/c we became friends and she told me so later.

Her words: "I thought you didn't like me", and of course I was like wtf.

2012-03-21T01:02:38+00:00

Start touching her meow.

puaCurveBall · 2012-03-20T21:16:22+00:00

How are you seeing girls multiple times without kino?

You are making friendly plans for coffee or...?

At your stage, you need to kino early, and just move on from those you didn't.

callmedood · 2012-03-21T12:22:39+00:00

The problem with me is that I seem to overkino too quickly. I usually start with a hug (if I'm on a first date), then brushing shoulders, then holding hands, then my arm around their shoulder when sitting down. I do slight push when I joke with them or whatnot. But I've blown it twice by creeping the girl out with overkinoing. I'm the opposite of you I guess, I gotta tone down the kino.

Title	If at first you don't kino, are you screwed?
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Upvotes	20
Comments	18
Date	March 20, 2012 8:52 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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