How do I increase frequency of SNLs?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-03-22T21:01:04+00:00

Concentrate on getting numbers early in the evening (when girls you meet will be sober and remember you) and then later in the evening, within 2hrs of last call, concentrate on weeding out the girls who are alone and escalate hard. Screen quickly, if no-go, move on.

Someone on my local board was sarging on the subway after last call, and it was sort of brilliant. He was doing very well talking to girls who were headed home alone, as they had no friends around to cockblock, were tipsy and maybe not pleased about going home alone, you can actually have a conversation because it's not loud, etc. For science.

Marsupian · 2012-03-22T22:24:11+00:00

Logistics is very important. If that's all taken care off remember that a woman makes her choice on who she wants to go home with a little different than a man. A man really only has to make sure his dick gets hard so #1 criteria is whether she is hot or not. He might also take into account how sexual and willing the girl is and maybe gets turned off by certain traits but it's all about #1.

For a woman there is a little more too it. First of all whether she has good sex is not just dependent on how hot the guy is but mostly how good he is in the sack. Traits that a woman takes for indicators of how good a man is in bed are:

Confidence
Taking the lead
Showing control over his body (good dancer, good motor skills etc.)
Being sexual and comfortable in escalating sexually
Knowing how to touch a woman
Good posture and an athletic body

Besides making sure the lay will be good she also has to know it will be safe for her. A man has a lot less reason to be afraid of going home with a woman than the other way around. Basically what a woman will be looking for is someone who is she can trust and who is who he says he is. Being congruent, being somewhat open to her and making her comfortable are all helpful. If she gets a feeling you are putting on a mask or a different persona will get alarm bells ringing so watch out for that. Also going really fast on a girl without building any comfort or without having talked much can scare some woman away although this depends a lot on the environment and the type of woman you are dealing with.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-03-22T19:44:42+00:00

Screen for logistics first. For example, if a girl is driving her friends home from the club, the logistics make it impossible for her to go home with you that night. You may get her attracted but bad logistics mean you are wasting your time. You could spend that time on a set with better logistics.

I think I recall Aaron Sleazy talking about screening for SNL logistics in his online book.

blahm3 · 2012-03-23T03:20:04+00:00

I had this same issue when I got a second job. Here is what helped me.

Logistics - Not just hers but focus on yours. Go out near your own place. MY SNL hits went up dramatically when I stopped wasting my time downtown and instead hit the places closer to my own place on the edge of suburbia.

Go to sexual venues. What places have hot girls dressed slutty? If girls are dressed conservative and boring don't go there. Is the place dark?

Sexual intent is absolutely crucial. Make sure you have read the post by TofuTofu here She needs to know that you think she is sexy and that you see her as a sexual option. She can then decide wether she see you as a sexual option, if she hasn't already decided. Plus once intent is out there kino, makeouts etc and becomes much easier to pump her buying temperature for the pull.

Mini FR on intent: I was actually at kinky party / sex club in DC. Was chatting with a sexy lady and her friend for a good part of the night. At one point I said to one of them "Me and [other girl] were talking earlier when you were getting shocked about what a sexy ass and legs you have..." She went from leaning against the bar next to me to jamming her knee between my legs and telling me she wanted me to fuck the shit out of her. Prior to that statement everything was friendly, despite being in a sex club. I made it sexual by letting her know I saw her as sexual option and now she felt safe to be forward with me....very forward in this case.

Let her know you want to take her home. My standard pull statement 'Is it bad that I want to take you home?'It is subtle. My intent and desire is embedded in the question but it is not as awkward as simply saying 'I want to take you home.'She can easily say 'yes its bad...'. you will always be rejected. She will always give some sort of ASD. Expect it. BUT I have always found that once I have my intent clear and let her know that I will take her home she joins my team and will facilitate my goal. She will find a way to go home with you in way that doesn't trigger her own ASD.

Couple of mini FR on this: I make my pull statement to sexy blond at bar. She blahs about not going home with guys blah blah. Not more than 15 minutes later she says 'would it be bad if we just left [her friend] and went somewhere else?' I seize the moment and she is in my car back to my place. She does some other token ASD shit along the way and some slight LMR but she isolated herself for the pull home because she knew I would.

Another case. I make my pull statement to sexy blond. She says she isn't that kind of girl.I say I am sure you are not but sometimes its fun to be bad. She immediatly leaves me and goes and chats with her friends for a few minutes. She comes back and says she really has to take her friend home. But guess who is texting me 30 minutes later?? You guessed it :)

TrippAdvice1 · 2012-03-23T02:27:40+00:00

"Blow me or blow me out" - BradP

This has helped me in many situations, going for SNL's. Escalate, escalate, escalate and of course logistics. Any SNL I had or a friend has had was all because of not being scared to be extremely sexual. It can be sort of a numbers game. Any girl who is not taking well to your sexual advances will blow you out, but the one girl who is digging your vibe will be your SNL. Don't give a fuck and take the chance. That's the only way this will happen.

As far as logistics goes, make sure you know who her friends are (win them over big time to make them trust you) and find places to pull her to. Some of the best pua's out there don't even need to know where she is going after the club and just fuck them in the bathroom or right outside in their car.

Also, very important note, do not let her wander off. You need to stay in control of the set. Once she's gone you can't assume she will come back. If she doesn't come back in 5-10 minutes from either the bathroom or getting a drink with her friends, assume she's gone for the rest of the night and move on to your next set.

Title	How do I increase frequency of SNLs?
Author	weddingthrasher
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	March 22, 2012 7:38 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/r8svu/how_do_i_increase_frequency_of_snls/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-do-i-increase-frequency-of-snls.1330283 https://theredarchive.com/post/1330283

Comments