So seddit,

I've been learning a lot about myself thanks to seddit (and a few other various subreddits) and I was wondering if there is a term for somebody who (for lack of a better way to phrase it) enjoys getting oneitis. I realize now I want to seduce girls, but not in the one night stand type of way. More in the invest time and have a fun/interesting relationship until it lives out it's life and then move on. But this is not the main point of my post, just a side thought.

But here is my main concern about seddit's game; how long do you usually let pass between steps of whatever method or strategy you use? It seems like most people like to garner some interest and rapport and then vacate for a bit so that the HB will gain some desire to see you again. I'll be specific now though, there's a girl in my spanish class who I am very interested, I would like to get to know her (and obviously f-close) at some point. I'm not in a particular rush to f-close, I don't have a car and I'm at university so dating is not the optimal answer, is it best to try and flirt in class for a session or two, #-close, and then move to outside of class contact from there? The problem is we very rarely sit by each other in class so we don't have a whole lot of contact. I'm very interested to know how long your gaming process takes from first contact to #-close and from #-close to f-close.