So last night I went to this country dance club with 2 of my buddies. It was basically all of our first times. We just wanted to deviate from our normal routines and give the world a try. We didn't really expect much.
Everyone was line dancing there. We didn't know how to do it. At first we just kind of stood back and watched, but then we forced yourselves to just try. We looked like jackasses, and quit soon.We then stood back again and watched.
Then I noticed 2 girls that did basically did the same thing. They had no idea what they were doing. We decided to take our first initiative and talk to them because of this similarity and ended up also getting a small dance lesson from someone they've been talking to that night too. We just ended up small talking and left after awhile to get a drink. When we came back, a slow song started. One girl gets swooped up and then the new one in their group gets swooped, leaving the one I was actually into by herself. I knew this was my chance. I went to up to her casually, offered her my hand, and I asked her to dance. And of course she said yes.
I talked to her a bit while we were dancing, but we didn't really connect to well. I decided that I wasn't going to focus on her. There were way too many girls their to feel bad about going after that one, which was a whole new feeling to me. After the dance, me and my buddies went upstairs to sit down for a bit.
While were sitting down, this guy sits down at our table and says: "You guys look like a cool bunch of fellas, I'll talk with you" So we talked to this guy for a bit and actually started hanging with him throughout the night.
We ended up going on the dance floor and tried at the line dancing again. This time, we had an easier dance to do. It started getting fun. We all loosened up. I started to build some confidence. The next slow dance, I asked the first girl I saw to dance, and this where I made my success.
We danced. We talked. We held each other closer. Looking into her eyes, We both got that "I want to fuck this person look" which she complimented with a slight bit to the lower lip. One thing I have learned from horny women is that when that lower lip thing happens, you are basically in.
We ended up dancing together on another slow dance, and it got more and more intimate, crouches rubbing up against each other and whatnot. I was going to try to start upping it in the next dance, and try to kiss her and above, but my friends wanted to leave so I just went up to her and got her number, the whole time we were playing with each others hair and holding our sides. And when I was leaving, I grabbed her by both and gave one last smile, and we both got that longing look again. Probably could have tried kissing her then, but that besides the point. The point is, I got my first number from a girl in a club.
Well now, I'm going to tell her to meet me at this coffee shop in down town tonight so we can have a place to talk, and see where the night takes us from there.
Overall, it was an amazing experience. I met some cool people and tried to pick up girls outside of my comfort zone, and I think I did it like a boss for my first time. My confidence went way up last night.
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