How to find your mission in life, or better yet, happiness. Feel alone in this world.

ReddJive · 2018-09-17T00:30:20+00:00

Stop watching useless shit and get to work.

Find your Mission

In the immortal words of Sun Tzu.

The most important technique to winning war is to stop being a faggot and get your hands out of your pockets

lanky32 · 2018-09-18T18:27:47+00:00

Hmmm.

How close are you to your family, mate?

I guess not too close.

How many close friends or bros do you have?

I can bet you don't have any. It is masculine to say that you don't need anyone to open to.

Truth is, we all do. some of us, more than others. You are one such person . There is nothing weak about it.

Many people on this forum will tell you that you feel like this because you do not have a mission. Fuck them. They are just regurgitating what they have learned here without applying their minds to it.You have this innate desire to have a sense of belonging to someone. And you are not getting it. This is making you utterly confused.

For many people banging many chicks is the ultimate high. And they will tell you to do that. Fuck them too.

Because most of people here talk about banging chicks. So you think it should be your end goal too. But even when you bang chicks you don't get the high, the exhilaration which you expected you would get - you don't have the feeling of pure ecstasy that you expected sex would give you.

You are looking for someone who can anchor you. Maslow's hierarchy, level 3 from bottom - need for love/belonging.

And you expect to get that by banging chicks. When you don't, you don't understand what else you could too. Afterall you are applying TRP philosophy.

Being emotionally close to your family helps. If you are close to them, see if you can video call them once or twice a week. That would help.Connecting with friends from your home country would also help alleviate the loneliness.

You are in a new country. If you get new friends here, it would help fulfill your need to belong to someone.

it would be great if you can mix with the locals. If, you do not have the personality to do that, be friends with other expats from your home country.

Your problem is your feeling of loneliness. It has nothing to do with you not having a mission. It has nothing to do with girls, either.

blaine_freelance · 2018-09-16T21:57:52+00:00

I'm not banging any women at the moment, been dry for about 5 years now, but I feel as though I would be pretty happy with life if I was banging women all the time.

PranksterLad · 2018-09-16T21:59:55+00:00

Why’s that? What’s your secret?

effyouasshole · 2018-09-16T22:56:06+00:00

I suppose you can consider this to be your punishment for lack of a long-term game plan back in college. Your peers who focused on their studies (i.e.: their upcoming careers/mission) and kept the partying in check now have a sense of purpose, happiness, and high SMV.

Its not too late for you, though. It never is for anyone, in fact. But strangers on the Internet can't tell you what you want; that's something you need to meditate on and figure out for yourself. What's your dream job? What do you want build? Think big.

Realize that your mission cannot revolve around women, nor recapturing the magic you had in the past. Those times are over. However, with enough consistent hard work and focus, you can attain new happiness and purpose. Plenty of fun times with women will come as a result, too.

Title	How to find your mission in life, or better yet, happiness. Feel alone in this world.
Author	PranksterLad
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 16, 2018 9:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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