Hey Seddit. My name is HollowBeast, and I have a problem.

I can't pull the trigger. I don't really have approach anxiety--I can engage people about random stuff, I'm super cute (so they say, I don't believe it), I'm charming, and girls laugh at my dumb jokes. BUT there's a point where you have to show overt sexual interest, and I've never ever done this--I just treat them like guys. My few sexual encounters have fallen into my lap, so to speak.

In day game, I have to ask them for a number--I'm never sure if I've built enough rapport so that's it's not weird. What's my excuse for getting their number?

In night game, this means overt kino and my mind FREAKS OUT over touching someone in a sexual way (not shoulder/arms/hugs/brushing legs). (And going for the kiss is impossible--what if someone sees? How do you isolate at a crowded party?)

I need advice. It seems that I've missed a lot of chances over the years.