I don't post here a whole lot, primarily because I don't 'game' much- i mostly subscribe because of my interest in human relations and such. That said, i had an interesting first date that I thought i'd post and get some reactions on.

Background: Met this girl at a country bar- we united over the fact that neither of us like country music, i mentioned i promote for a house/techno night, and told her to find us on facebook. she wowed me by saying she doesn't have facebook, and hasn't for 3 years... Got her number and gave her mine to let her know if the next event. She left with some friends to go to a nearby bar that had recently opened.

Ended up making a date with her a few days later to go to this same bar that had just opened up. Fast forward to the day of, confirm with her for 8pm drinks at about noon. I arrive at 7:55ish- i was pretty much killing time at dinner with friends but figured i'd rather be the first one there, to choose a decent table. She texts and says she's running late, should be there in 20 minutes.

She arrives 30 minutes later, texts that she's by the door- i reply saying where I am. Wait 2 minutes, don't see her, go up to the door to find her, this is where it gets interesting:

I walk around the bar (it's like a square bar area in the centre of the... pub/bar/venue) to see her standing talking to two guys seated at the bar. Apparently one had just been dumped by some girl he was madly in love with, and was solidly drunk. his friend was consoling him, and the two of them were probably 7 or 8 years older than the two of us. I join the conversation, and we chat with them for about 5 minutes, then excuse ourselves and i bring her to our table. Before sitting, she excuses herself to the bathroom, and i quickly dart over to the bar (since we're on the other side of it, the two guys can't see me) and send a drink to wasted-recently-dumped buddy on my tab.

She returns from the bathroom and we order some drinks, chat, and all seems to be going relatively well, if not a bit shy. About 15 minutes later, buddy's friend comes over (on his way to the bathroom) and demands (half-jokingly) that I not buy them any more drinks, because his friend is too drunk and he has to drink them instead. We laugh it off, and continue chatting for 15 or 20 minutes.

about 30 or 40 minutes into our date, I visit the bathroom, and return to find that the two guys bought us drinks, on the condition that we go sit with them... she seems already sold on it, so I figure why-the-hell-not, and we get up and go over there. We're sitting at the bar, in this order: Drunk Guy, his Buddy, Her, Me. Drinks are drunk, and they get out of us that we're on a date, a first date, and (mind is blown) she is a virgin. As more drinks are bought and drunk, they start hitting on her, or at least drunk guy does, increasingly so... At one point I was ready to throw in the towel, as they had almost entirely stolen my thunder, but I instead drained my drink and decided to sarge on. At this point (about 15 minutes into joining them) Drunk guy's friend takes it upon himself to give me advice (she hates her father, just tell her what to do..) and slides himself between myself and her (while drunk guy is chatting her up) in order to do so. He then tells me to tell the two of them to 'fuck off and let us have our date'... i'm not exactly the type to say that, and i certainly don't want to come across as rude or hostile in front of this girl, so instead i say to her 'let's finish off our drinks and maybe head to (another nearby pub)'. She seems ok with that, and we do so, with drunk-guys-friend still offering advice like 'she's totally gonna do you' and 'she's not going to do you at all'.. all very helpful -_-

After we finally get out of there, we recap what happened- apparently drunk guy's friend was telling her that I hate my mom- and i tell her that he said she hates her dad... we apparently both love our parents. She asks what else he said... I stop, pull her back to me, kiss her. Works pretty well.

The rest of the evening was pretty smooth sailing.. that two-guys-hitting on her in front of me thing really threw me off- i'm not a 'lets go on a nice formal first date' kinda person as it is, so that was.. interesting. Worked out for the best though, I ended up spending next to nothing, and we got drunk enough that the rest of the night was a lot of making out and such.

Interesting side note: She's new to my city, so she seems very.. loose.. with her number. Apparently an attempt to make friends. She gave it to these guys, who've texted her quite a bit. And some guy on the subway.. a bit concerning, but i don't know how to deal with that...

Girl's specs: HB8.5, flight attendant, possible 'late bloomer' who doesn't realize that she's (quite) good looking. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that the 'virgin' thing may actually be true, but we're only 2 dates in so I can't say for sure.

Any suggestions on how handle the 'freely giving out phone number' thing would be appreciated, also ideas on how to handle two guys hitting on your date when they've pretty much dropped $100 on the two of you in alcohol...

TL;DR: First date, interrupted by two guys buying us drinks, then hitting on her, then telling me to tell them to fuck off (in an effort to help me). K-close.