I had a small grad party at my house, and invited a few girls. One of them I had know, not very well but had hung out a few times. I tried to make some moves a long time ago, which ended up with me being invited over to her place, sitting on her couch and nothing happening.

Well fast forward to a week or so ago, she came over to the grad party. Everyone got drunk and had alot of fun. I wasn't really putting any moves. We had a lapdance contest, where I was the judge. And I blacked out and when I came too. I was taking her pants off and going down on her. Well the rest is a wrap, we ended up getting rough till the sun came up, and then we made out some more and she went home; but not before making some plans to meet up a few days later, since I had a interview close to where she was living.

I ended up meeting her a few days later, making out and going to a few places to get some drinks and dinner. I was still out of it since I had partied pretty hard that weekend.

When we got back to her place and had some heavy making out, but as soon as I tried to make some moves to do something more, she gives me those not right now eyes. So I chill we watch some comedy and I playfully try to undo some buttons and escalate, still to no avail. Making out was kinda lackadaisical on her, really unenthusiastic, I have to mention.

So I give up, end up watching some comedy standup till late and then leave. Before I leave and head out, she grabs me and we get some heavy making out. And exit.

So my question is whats going? I'm really not able to read whats going since this is my first time in this sort of position. I know shes kinda into me, but the first time I made some moves, I think she had some guy she was into (I think that ended recently).

Some more hooking up would be nice, shes kinda cute, how should I go about doing this? Should I freeze out? Or should I meet up and do the date thing? I'm not looking for a LTR, I would like to see some more girls before that happens, but it would be nice to secure something at this point.

What do I do from here? Any advice? Anyone been in this situation?