Help Me Out?

leodoestheopposite · 2012-06-05T14:44:50+00:00

Within this community it's called day game
Start talking (without being creepy) with anyone and everyone, BE friendly, no ulterior motive that just strike a lighthearted conversation and engage people. By anyone and everyone I mean: men or women; old or young; fugly or beautiful.

Take a look at this post http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ufzvf/planting_1000_seeds_a_bit_long_i_know/

VMikeL · 2012-06-05T11:17:02+00:00

Hooray, another New Yorker. Public spaces, going direct and indirect both work better in different circumstances, and numbers.

Trains are a little different. What you should run is observational stuff, or start indirect w/ functional openers and then change the frame by being direct.

Observational: "Why is it always the crazy people who get to go nuts on the train? I want a go." - the idea of an observational is that it's almost like a directed broadcast, and her response is ostensibly opening you.

Functional: "Excuse me, does this train go to 34th?" - You can't get rejected using a functional opener...

"Excuse me, does this train go to 34th?" "I have a boyfriend" <dafuq?

You can change the frame easily by saying "Thanks, I just want to let you know that I think you're absolutely stunning" You can pad that, justify it or whatever, but that's the basic way.

rustoof · 2012-06-05T06:30:13+00:00

Situational opener -"What do you think of x that just happened?" "Wasn't thing x that just happened funny?" "You know thing y we both just saw bothers me. what do you think?"

Anything that gives you a back and forth of about 4 sentences;

e.g. "I never understood why people beg on trains. Do you think they can ride off the train fare on their taxes?" "hahaha, yeah i never thought of it that way." "Yeah, i hate when they get on the train and tell me they're hungry, it's like, bro you just dropped the money for lunch at mcdonalds to get on this train" "Yeah your right, that doesn't make sense. It probably makes them more money though?"

Ok, so theres the opener, now you're talking.

Next comes qualification. Typically i will talk about something i like, qualification to me is mostly about seeing if we have stuff in common"

so continuing;

"You know what though, I love the guys who sell cold drinks and dvds on the train. Like i never drink soda, but when you can have someone bring it to you and buy it real cheap its pretty sweet." "Really? I never buy anything from thoe guys they kind of scare me" "Why? They're just go getters trying to get what they want. Isn't that a good thing? "Yeah, I mean i suppose i work to get what i want and people buy stuff from me"

And now the close;

"you work cause you want things? Yeah join the club (teasingly). What do you want?"

"You know just a comfortable living, etc..."

"No what do you really want?"

"Hmm... probably a pony (or whatever dumb shit girls think they want)

"Wow thats really cool. A pony is probably the second thing i want most now."

"Awww... not number one? Whats number one?

"Your phone number"

done.

Title	Help Me Out?
Author	swd515
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	June 5, 2012 5:15 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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