Good at attracting women when I see them as just a friend. Having trouble translating that to women I want

savior6 · 2012-06-29T00:00:07+00:00

For me when I do not view a girl sexually I end up being myself and fun. With a girl I find attractive, I'm more reserved (unless i'm completely hammered)..... sound about right?

onehundredproblems · 2012-06-29T00:13:31+00:00

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robidizzle · 2012-06-29T11:29:30+00:00

to a lesser degree, i had the same problem. if girls like you when you treat them as friends, start treating all them as friends. don't get nervous and think about the right things to say, get over their looks and be yourself and maybe even go so far as friend zoning them. some girls start to realize how great a guy is after being friends

JStrach · 2012-06-29T00:22:07+00:00

I can relate so much. I feel fucked up even trying to game girls that I actually want more than physically. It's like the girls that I get I tend to think of as idiots, and I'm not even being sexist, they're usually half retarded blonde girls who couldn't spell IQ let alone have one. So when it comes to a woman who I respect and actually want to be with I'm like how the fuck am I supposed to treat you the same way as I treat these other girls.

funkyjames · 2012-06-29T13:05:52+00:00

i can relate with you OP. i think what it comes down to is not letting sex tie up your mind. ive heard many success stories about guys who were just having fun, not caring about the outcome, and ive experienced that myself. its hard to get into that zone sometimes, but keep on trying. when i talk to girls i try to think of them as guys, after that its not such a challenge but rather a joy, and then you dont look like the feared Mr. Nice Guy who gets friendzoned.

jwal245 · 2012-06-30T18:42:54+00:00

Just don't think about it in that context. As hard as it is, remember most guys out there think themselves into the friendzone. Logic and/or any other type of conscious thought kills attraction, so as long as you keep your mind from thinking about attaining an actual relationship,you should be fine.

LockHowl · 2012-06-29T18:23:31+00:00

I can absolutely relate, with the exceptin that don't seem to attract anyone at all.

Marsupian · 2012-06-29T03:27:02+00:00

Basically your problem is that you have no game, start at the sidebar, go out and approach and you'll get better at it.

Title	Good at attracting women when I see them as just a friend. Having trouble translating that to women I want
Author	onehundredproblems
Upvotes	28
Comments	18
Date	June 28, 2012 11:15 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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