One of important things in seduction is confidence, which I once had defined to me as the thought, "I'm totally awesome, and so is everyone else." I know that I sometimes come off as arrogant, and I think it stems from my occasional tendency to harbor an intense disdain for the people around me. (Arrogant meaning "I'm totally awesome" without the "and so is everyone else" part)

"My sister's a bitch" "My dad complains too much" "Ugh, look at that overweight person" "God, why is my friend so unintelligent?"

This type of mindset is obviously unhealthy, and it's certainly not something I catch myself thinking often, but I wonder, how do you guys go about always seeing the best in people?