This past weekend I went to a music festival with some friends. One girl brought along one of her friends, B, whom I was instantly attracted to. Right away her and I had great eye contact and kino.

We get to the music festival and I notice she is paying more attention to me and seemed to be seeking my attention by coming up to me and talking, dancing around me and what not. At one point I let her know how sexy I find her and went in for a kiss. Given the signs, I thought I was golden, but turns out she has a boyfriend back home and didn't want to cheat on him. So I froze her out, but she continued to talk to me and seemed like she was trying for my attention. At one point I was gonna get water, and she said she wanted to go with me.

Later that night she told me she thought I was an awesome guy, and really attractive but she couldn't cheat on her bf. We continued to spend the weekend together, being very physical, often walking with our arms around each other, we spooned just about every night, I was able to feel her up, we danced together. We also told each other how bad we wanted one another, but couldn't act on those desires. I told her a couple times over the weekend how sexy I found her and she did the same. I also got to paint her tits and she walked around with some amazing neon tits for a concert (red flag that she just seeks attention?).

The weekend came to a close and I was finally able to kiss her and eat her out, but that was all. We were making out at one point and she had to stop saying she really liked me and didn't want to have any regrets with me. She also started looking up other festivals for us to go to and said she wants to go backpacking with me. And several times she mentioned how she wasn't sure about this relationship anymore, how she isn't sure about the guy and what not.

Now she is texting me, telling me about how she took a nap and was sprawled out on her bed naked, or how she is just wearing the wristband from the concert.

I feel like such an idiot right now, like I have some serious signs that she is into me, and based on what she has told me, she is, but based off what some other people said, apparently she wasn't into me at all and just wanted the attention. I'm still sort of new to all of this and worried I just got manipulated into providing her all the attention, but didn't get anything in return, even though I had an awesome weekend with her. I didn't pay for anything so I'm not sure how I was manipulated, but I don't want to keep giving her attention if I'm just some emotional support for her. Also, she lives 8 hours away, so I can't see her all the time.