Hi guys, been lurking for a while, I've finally done something worthy of a field report. Let's dive right in.

I've been working at a hotel in a very small town of 150 people this summer as a mountain guide. The thing about living in such a small town (a village really), is that there is a shortage of young people. I seriously think that there are about 15 of us. I won't bore you with the details, but suffice to say, a social life of seddit's caliber is difficult to achieve.

Anyway, I go to this concert. I arrived about an hour early because of miscommunications. But thankfully my work buddy was there so we had a beer and sat us down at the front.

So we're just chilling, waiting for people to arrive, and it was a good turn up that night with some new faces. In the crowd I spot a familiar girl whom I'd conversed with earlier. I'll call her Sarah. She's not the most visually stimulating, but certainly intellectually, so I'd say I'm attracted to her.

The room was set up with tables and chairs but us youngsters had taken one table for ourselves and kind of strewn chairs about, me and my friend had moved at this point. But anyway, Sarah sits kind of opposite me and we instantly hit it off. I didn't have anything special in mind, but my instincts were tuned and I could tell she was interested. Game on.

I start by moving my chair so that I'm right beside her. We shoot the shit and get to know each other better. I'm constantly in the tease mode, never giving a straight answer and just generally being fun. It turned out she has a boyfriend, so I cooled my game a bit. I'm not that guy, or so I thought. Now, this being a concert, you wouldn't think that there would be much room for talking. The music was pretty loud, so we started kind of talking into each others ears and touching hands, legs, stuff like that. She would talk the most, and I did call her out on that, telling her to keep quiet and listen to the music. I kind of shut her out a bit there.

The concert ends and people start talking. We continue where we left off and she starts kinoing me! I'm a bit fuzzy on how the next few minutes went, but we ended up in the hallway having a private chat, where she confessed to me that she was getting tired of her boyfriend and whatnot. I was pretty neutral in my answers(it's your decision, I said), and I'm not sure how that went in the end.

Anyways, the bar scene was winding down and everyone was leaving, so I was ready to go somewhere else. She wanted to see where I lived, but I didn't want to wake my dad up, so I kind of showed it to her from afar, if you will, and told her that she had to show me where she lived. So we pretty much went to her apartment, which was in another hotel (the tourism business is a major one here). She showed me the whole hotel and we had a nice chat about this and that. Then I played my major seduction card.

She had mentioned earlier that evening that she had a saxophone and was learning to play. I'm a saxophone player. So naturally, she asked me to play and I did. And boy does the music card do the trick. She was all over me by then and we ended up making out. I wasn't really after sex that night, especially with a girl in a relationship (I've had that shit pulled on me before), so I stopped and let her decide the rest. She decided even though she wanted badly to have sex with me, she thought it was best me to go, which I agreed with. I said my goodbyes, thanked her for the night and went home on my bicycle.

My defense: What can I say, you guys? Some of you would call me a pussy for not pushing forward and trying more, but I'm quite proud of my accomplishment of getting at least that far. It's not something that I would have been able to do a year ago. I made a moral choice and stuck with it, helping my own integrity and self-appreciation. I know I would've felt like shit afterwards.

What are your thoughts?