I want make this a quick one with as much detail and technique express to help whomever possible. Tech's used from Seddit in italics

I just want to say, when you have your own agenda: living completely in the moment and just enjoying yourself (whatever it may be) with no care with who's there or who isn't - it really makes everything with meeting women, and people in general, MUCH EASIER. Flow like water. This way of thinking is best described in this post couple days ago.

  • 1st Encounter I was at an afterhours club on my birthday, just raging out late with some friends. Breaking off from my group of friends (going solo :P) I posted up by one of the speakers, with my drink and started grooving. I personally don't mind dancing by myself, especially when I LOVE the music. Doing this I not only showed I was confident and comfortable but made it clear I'm happy in the state I'm in. I made eye contact with a HB near by, and our dancing body language showed we were both enjoying the song/DJ very much> proceeded to dance casually with each other. After 20 or so minutes, first words to each other was that she had to go> I said ok, and she walked... after a minute, it sank in that she was never to be seen again.. so I chased after her and caught up her to say, "Hey, I had fun out there (proceeded to open).. so, what's your name?" - name - "If you come here often, I would like to do this again. let me have your number... matter of fact, just take mine" - pulls out phone, hands it to me, I put in my number and INITALS, hand it back - She asks, "What are those letters suppose to mean??" I DHV reply with "Well...I don't know you enough to give you my name so, text me sometime" - once she says ok, and then I walk away.

  • 2nd Encounter Almost three weeks later, I was standing in line for the restroom at a concert with the same music as the club mentioned before, and out of no where this stunning HB comes up and says, "Hey, remember me?" I scramble my brain trying to remember her... and it clicked after about a minute of pressure, to my surprise, I nailed it, cause I was pretty wasted my birthday night. She was surprised too, but she did mention that when she saw me she knew exactly who I was (Strong 1st impression I assume) We proceeded to small talk about which artists she was going to see, and then she asked whom I was going to see/ what was I going to do so, DHV I closed the convo before it got too in depth, with "I'm with a bunch of friends so I'll be jumping around, but... if you actually text me this time, you mightt just catch me later." She immediately whips out her phone, texts me, and say our goodbyes. Here I thought I thought I fucked up cause once she leaves I look at my phone I receive no such text and now Idk if I'll see this HB that's showing major IOI's again. I had to say to myself, - must. be. outcome. independent. It took me nearly the entire concert (4-5 hrs + 10,000 people) to get her out of my head, and once I do, she fuckin appears out of nowhere, and we go dance in the crowd. I dodge questions with vague answers like my name (still) and my age (I'm 24) but once again, about 30 mins later she has to leave, so I insist on walking with her for a bit to ensure I get her number this time, which I do. Slight DHV/qualifying with: I call her out saying she shouldn't lie to people in their face, and say she never texted me. On her phone she proves she does, so in a sense she had to prove she wasn't a liar. She's leaves, I leave later. Since she said, "See you later dude!" After the event I text her something funny pertaining to our encounter saying, "this is 'Dude'"

To my surprise, she never replied, and I wondered why for a few days and did not proceed to text anything whatsoever... Ends up, it wasn't till half way through the work week that I realized my phone wasn't receiving any texts, and behold, I did get replies from her. To my advantage, me not giving her attention for a few days probably made me DHV... but I'm only assuming. I remember on seddit many users say to only text to push a meet up and not to converse... and since I know I already had a roll going on doing things different than AFC's... I decided to call her 1st for a meet up. No answer. 20 mins later she texts back with "Mhmm?" - I didnt approve with that kind of response to a phone call, almost as if she was trying to Qualify me! Qualify+tease my response was "Either your vocabulary is terrible... or you're just speechless that I just called you." - It worked, shortly after, she replied, "I'm at work, so I'll call you back in just a bit ok? and my vocab is prodigious, btw." (haha she tried qualifying herself to me) >> she calls, we talk, I tell her what I wanted to do on my day off and i tell her if she wants to join me, she can- Cuts me off, says yes, she wants to meet up. We make plans for the beach and I immediately end the call asap. (I got what I needed right?)

  • 3rd Encounter After I call her saying when I'll be done with my errands, we meet up and her house, and chit chatted a bit, and went to the beach... I don't remember all the conversation details, but I continued to give her Half-compliments (like she's 'aightt' but I've seen better) and DHV though it was difficult actually being into her, but not giving the complements I would like to tell her. Of course when they gasp after you do/say something that makes them regular or oridinart, and not on a pedestal - usually means you're doing it right. :) KINO alllllll day. Of course, it all progresses with the vin dicarlo's escalation ladder. Through out the time at the beach, here and there I would give eye contact but I didn't have all my attention on her with my eyes she has to earn it right?? Well, it wasn't till we were back at her house, on the couch, where we talked about our similar interests that strong eye contact really resulted in escalation. We discussed why we should meet up again tomorrow cause I was going to have people over at my house and she should come after work. She then fiddled with her phone about what songs she likes, looks at me, and I would just look right at her, with no expression... then she'd turn away. After 4 or 5 times of holding eye contact, she finally admitted: "I find I'm very attracted to you.." I wanted to say something to have her qualify again... but the only thing that came out of my ass was, "well...... that's good." We chuckled, but see, I didn't admit, just yet, I was attracted to her... so I started to KINO much more and said IOI's to build it up. I had some gum in my mouth... so I just pulled a lame, but in a sexual way, "I want some gum?" She replied that she didn't want to kiss cause she knows it would lead to other things (IOI) but i just said, "Well, at least you get to find out what is in store for tomorrow..." she smiled about the idea and then proceeded to K-close.

  • 4th Encounter She gets off work, I'm out having some drinks, which she then meets up with me. I suggest going to my place to drink, and she drives us over there I kino and also did a couple slow kisses on her neck while she's driving to get her in the right mindset. We get to my house, I show her around, I turn on some music, and not even 1 song ended and she suggests: "show me your room, I want to see it..." and then F-close and she stays the night.

Afterthoughts - I found out she was 18 (doesn't act like it), and I finally admitted my age when we were at the beach, so I'm not positive if it was easier cause of her age, but in the morning she asked what took me so long to contact her. I wanted to say something like, I was busy, but I liked her enough to say my phone was fucked up. I proceeded to ask her what made her come up to see if I remembered her, her reply was that it pissed her off that I wasn't easy from the very start (that I didn't give up my name cause I didn't know if she was good enough.) We did click very well on the first meet up, so I'm pretty sure that contributed to the hook up. Fortunately, she leaves in a month for college.

Hope the format helped.