Simply put, I'm introverted. I prefer to be kept to myself and I am generally very honest and serious (speaking my mind) when I talk to someone.

I have no trouble talking to women and I do talk to them quite a lot in clubs if I'm going out - but here's the thing that really frustrates me.

I can't revert from being serious and honest to being goofy and fun - I can be all fun and goofy when I'm actually comfortable with someone, but if I've just met them, I'm very serious and to the point.

It's hard since most women think of me as some kind of prophet or something when they respond.

(No, I don't talk about doomsday, or anything bad. I just speak my mind. For e.g. OH that's some great perfume! Where did ya get it from? - instead of something more silly like "Oh, that perfume is horrible! Just joking I love it")

I guess it's hard to change lol.