I'm having a "crash here if you want" kinda party in about a week. How to propose sex to a chick that will be here?

FossilCountyCartRace · 2012-08-16T03:30:08+00:00

Propose? nah! Escalate to it, flirting + kino + drinks .. escalate all night, sex will be the next logical step.

When all else fails, pull the naked man: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTZ8S2dAHUU

2012-08-16T02:34:58+00:00

don't do this!! creepy. "hey, you can have sex with me if you want, ya know...huh? huh?" that's what you're saying essentially. ugh.

is this your first time here? if so, read the sidebar. If not, you should know that being outcome-based is a sure fire way to shoot yourself in the foot. If you're obsessed with getting laid then you will come across as needy and desperate. Focus on having fun and making connections with people and they will want to sleep with you.

Invite the girl over and TALK TO HER like a normal human being. Escalate physically and work in flirtatious talking. Move her around the party. Don't cling to her. Talk to everyone else, be social and magnanimous, be a friend to everyone there. At the end of the night, it's just you and her (or your friends are passed out) bring her into your room to "watch a movie".

If she's not into it, don't push it. Read her body language and react appropriately. If you don't get laid, SO WHAT? Where are you going that you won't get laid, anyway, antarctica? There's probably women there too!

joope125 · 2012-08-16T02:33:40+00:00

I'm not worried about rejection, I just don't want to fumble an opportunity.

pbgswd · 2012-08-16T08:33:01+00:00

cornering a woman for sex when there are other people around can lead to some very hostile reactions. Other women can step in and prevent it from happening... have seen it all happen before.

Iamcookie9001 · 2012-08-17T01:20:29+00:00

"Let me show you this interesting pattern on my bedroom ceiling..." She'll know what's up.

2012-08-18T21:27:42+00:00

Draw up a formal contract and have her sign it.

puaCurveBall · 2012-08-16T16:39:28+00:00

You don't propose sex, you HAVE sex.

NomadicBit · 2012-08-17T19:20:05+00:00

I'll tell you what I used last weekend. As my friends began to ask where they could crash I quickly listed off everyone's spot except for hers. Once I was finished I paused for a moment gave her a sly smile and simply stated "as for you...Don't you worry. I have a comfortable spot for you to sleep.". The intent was stated...If she flirts back(isn't offended by your statement) then you are good. Proceed with the evening and pull her to your room when you feel like it.

you could also tell her that you want to show her something cool in your room. Or you could give her a tour and end it in your room. There's really a number of ways to go about this. In the end have fun, flirt, escalate a little and oh ya...HAVE FUN!

Title	I'm having a "crash here if you want" kinda party in about a week. How to propose sex to a chick that will be here?
Author	HopingForALovelyLay
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	August 16, 2012 2:12 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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