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Is this a typical alpha widow?

Wokeloser

September 26, 2018
26 upvotes
/r/askTRP

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Title Is this a typical alpha widow?
Author

Wokeloser

Upvotes 26
Comments 29
Date September 26, 2018 12:19 AM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9ixll0/is_this_a_typical_alpha_widow/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/is-this-a-typical-alpha-widow.133987
https://theredarchive.com/post/133987
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My buddy is not only hanging out with the girl who cucked him, but spending money on her. It’s so sickening that I may have to distance myself.

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Comments

[–]daddydraper 1 points 7 years ago* [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Here boys, is what you're trying to become. You're trying to become the guy that makes girls write fucking walls of text slobbering over your dick and wondering how the hell they're gonna keep YOU down and get YOU in bed. Not the other way around. The tables have turned, my friends.

That's a true man.

[–]HistoricalProgress 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is not a true man. That is a beta, porn fantasy. I have been in this situation with girls, and trust me, it stops being fun quickly if you don't try to do more. It's almost never about the dick, or to put it never just about the dick. He's holding her in his hands like a toy, and she's all the emotions with him everywhere, that she just wants to BE with him. If not controlled, that's just crazy fights. If not guided, it's just another story of a ruined relationship, a waste of time. She's talking about comfort, just being so comfortable and into him. In other words, emotions. Complete emotional control. A true man doesn't even in a sense know this or acknowledge this, because he's become so tuned to this and expects it-amused mastery. It's about taking the girl beyond that. Sure, it's fun just being to touch a girl's face, and your touch is powerful, so yearned for, that physical closeness, that she collapses in arousal, but it gets boring unless you channel it somewhere, for both yours and hers benefit.

[–]Morphs_4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And if he'd come around to her for another round of sex, she'd be more than willing.

[–]imtheoneimmortal1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt she says no

[–]Ricklogical 23 points24 points25 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Extreme case imo

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not really you can find something like this on just about every girl's twitter

[–]Deathrow221 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That shit with the absorbing part is still weird af tho

[–]VikkBlack 1 points 7 years ago* [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy Link

What traits help you to become that guy apart from maxing your looks?

[–]morescoobysnacks 1 points 7 years ago [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy Link

Finding a guy that's fit, ambitious, has tight game, that you have chemistry with, that also wants a LTR, is a lottery that 99.9% of women will never win. Takes years of drive to have all that and no fucking hoe out there deserves it to herself.

[–]omega_dawg936 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

this is what being RP is all about.

you work on yourself... to be fit, ambitious, learn game, run game, keep your game tight, etc.

and you are so confident that you literally tell women that they should feel BLESSED to share your time with you... as time is the most valuable thing you own.

at the same time, every woman is not for you. so if she chooses to be with you, she must submit to being with you how YOU want her in your life-not the other way around.

if she doesn't agree to those terms, walk away.

[–]MrAnderzon0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well said

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

thanks. but if you listen to old street pimps, this is exactly how they talk to ALL women.

[–]HistoricalProgress 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm fat, limited ambition, new to the game as a game. Yet every relationship I've had has been mostly like this. It also doesn't last, it's not built to, on some level it's not sustainable and healthy.

[–]markinsinz70 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thus is different alpha widows like her are destroyed for life per se. They never come back from what I've read.

If he shows up at her wedding right as she is saying her vows there's 99.9% chance she'll leave right there and then. One of rhe biggest keys of these cases (many girls today actually) is it happened when they were young usually just after high school like 19-24. Extremely vulnerable and shit.

[–]AshyBoneVR43 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's just straight weird. She sounds obsessed. It's deeper then just being an alpha widow. That first paragraph pretty much explains everything you'd need to know. I don't know about her saying she's never been attracted to other guys before. That sounds like girl logic bull shit to me. But that chick is is just decorated with more red flags then a china and russia combined parade.

[–]Kabuki4313 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that chick is is just decorated with more red flags then a china and russia combined parade.

This right here

[–]HistoricalProgress 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've come to realise that nearly every woman above te age of 21 has a true some level been alpha widowed. From your perspective, while it may seem macho to "ruin her for other men", that's a blue pill fantasy. You want to be an alpha but not widow her if you like her, you want her to be there and want to keep coming back for more, love, not sex btw, your love which she needs to remain validated and survive. Your time. Your chest. Your voice. Your touch. You want to show her comfort as well, and make her a happy kitten.

[–]Aesthetik_11 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Everything about him was perfect, even his flaws.” That right there is the power of female hamstering working in favor of a high SMV guy. Hamstering doesn’t always work against you, If you manage to rock her world she will also rationalize away the bad things about you

[–]Bruchibre1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks like yes. You could marry her you would always only ever be 2nd to this guy. Be sure he would need to snap his fingers to have her in her bed so you’d also be willing to share. We call her alpha widow but she’s the one who is a little bit dead inside.

[–]empatheticapathetic4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Be glad that’ll never be you.

[–]rigbed0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why

[–]empatheticapathetic-5 points-4 points-3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Duno lol

[–]OPTIMUSL1ME-3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

true true

[–]TheYekke0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I always thought that Tristan and Isolde was too much bs, this chick proves it was spot on. The good thing is she’s not a threat to any normie

[–]furcryingoutloud0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This woman needs help. This is psychotic level 10000. Whatever that guy is, beta, alpha, or zeta, I bet he's still running like Forrest Gump. So no, don't come to conclusions about what this guy is or isn't. The only thing he for sure is, is a hell of a runner.

[–]HeadingRed0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't know if he's alpha or just her oneitis - in this case it looks like the effect is pretty much the same.

[–]102117991070 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

IMO...she's talking about the sexual experience but since women are emotional creatures and sex is more psychological to them than physical, it's the emotions she craves from Mr. Bad Boy here and probably his IDGAF attitude.

[–]iintrOOutroo1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"I always thought that I was on the ace spectrum until he changed that". This is why.

[–]No1Buck-4 points-3 points-2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes.

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