Greetings all, I'd like to share my experience with everyone on how my Saturday night went. This is a bit lengthy, but I'm going to point out some key concepts in italics that I learned from seddit that made this interaction possible. If you're newer to seddit, you should read this whole post.

The scene is a house party. Going into the night I had a prime target that I actually made out with a few weeks ago at a similar party, but nothing further happened. I mentally prepared for her for days, what I would say, how I would isolate, routines I would run, etc. I had it all planned out in my mind and I thought I'd just stick to script and be good to go.

But when it's game time, she's cold as fuck. I don't think I was being unnatural due to over-preperation, I think she was just a tough one to crack. Eventually I get her opening up and and eventually I'm dropping sexual hints into the conversation which she's neutral to. When it comes to make-or-brake time to see if I'm going to get to isolate her from the rest of the party, a random friend of hers comes over to see her and she says "We'll continue this later". It doesn't sound encouraging.

Well, fuck me. For a minute I was pretty bummed, I thought all my preparation would be for naught. So I take a quick look around and see a buddy of mine talking to a 2 set so I meander over to see if I can help him out. My target (the girl he's not directly talking to) is a petite HB7/8, I walk over and open her by complimenting her about a certain piece of clothing she's wearing. Then I start teasing/busting her on it, I start critiquing the rest of her outfit (basically rating it as "OK", don't be an asshole) and she critiques mine. When she tries to bust my balls I tell her she has no idea what she's talking about and tell her she doesn't know fashion. She loves it. Small negging/Cocky/Funny

Eventually I ask my buddy (and also host of the party) next to me who his friends are and we get formally introduced. Social Proof. Both my friend and the girl he was talking to meander off to talk to others, but HB8 stays with me which I take as a pretty big IOI. The conversation goes on for a bit and never dips into the boring "do you go to school here, what's your major, what year are you" etc. questions. I was completely in the zone and worked in some kino like hip touching, lots of elbow/shoulder touching when I'm talking to her, and (something I just learned in seddit recently) I brush my hands across/touch her stomach several times. She doesn't back away or mind at all. She returns some kino by lightly pushing on my stomach/chest once in awhile. Kino early and kino often, it gets repeated in every fucking thread on seddit for a reason.

At this point her friend rejoins us, fuck. I had her isolated from her friend but missed my chance to bounce, we stayed in the same spot. They're talking about things I can't really comment on so I'm hung out to dry for a minute as I look around for a friend to step in and wing. A friend never came by, but I saved my ass a few different ways. The first was "forcing" my way into the conversation to comment/make fun of something her friend was talking about which goes over well with both of them. Don't try too hard here, the main goal is to just not be forgotten and I got them laughing a few times in the conversation without coming off as an attention-whore/needy. I also noticed the HB8's body language was still pointing towards me, I knew she still had interest, so every now and then I'd brush my hand by her hips/stomach/thigh in an accidental sort of way, but of course made no apologies nor did she seem to mind.

The other important thing I did was periodically grabbing her drink (no asking, just calmly taking it) and drinking it in front of her, then handing it back to her. Compliance test. Every time I did this, for reasons unknown to me, she'd stare directly into my eyes (even as her friend was talking) as I drank and gave it back to her. It was getting her attention and she never objected. Not grossed out by my germs, major IOI. This wasn't a cup that could get drugged or anything if you're thinking she was worried about that.

Luckily the friend wanders off after 3-5 minutes and I know that I should isolate her quick as I'm getting nothing but good vibes. Eventually she's standing right up next to me look into my eyes, I can tell she wants to kiss me. Instead, I let these stares come and go twice by continuing the conversation after some brief silences (building sexual tension) and then I give her my closing line.

My closer is essentially making a silly excuse for her to come into my friend's bedroom with me (Logistics. My friends were hosting the party, not having to leave the house/party was a major plus. Even if this wasn't the case I would have the logistics worked out before this point). We both know it's a bullshit line, she busts my balls about how vague and ridiculous it is, but I double-down and stick to my guns by giving more details and stressing the importance. I don't apologize or back-up, I accuse her of not taking the situation seriously.

I'm being vague here about my specific closing like because A.) I don't want 80,000 sedditors out there spamming this line and B.) You should make up your own line that's funny to you. You could ask her to help with your math homework, see your lava lamp (if I had one I would use this line every fucking time), whatever. The key to this is she knows it's bullshit and knows what you're really asking her, but this way she won't feel like a slut (avoids directly asking/propositioning for sex). Make your intentions "clear" while still offering weak plausible deniability.

Immediately after my double-down bullshit response I look into her eyes and she's still giving me positive vibes, so I took her hand and started walking. She followed with no resistance. Lead the interaction, assume the close. I didn't wait for her "official" answer because forcing a girl to admit out loud "Yes, I'll fuck you" isn't something they're going to do lightly. I assumed attraction and knew at worse she'd say no or wouldn't follow.

No LMR, which I credit to the kino that got her comfortable with touching already, the sexual tension I built, and her knowing my intentions.

End of FR. A few other comments-

  • This post brings up some good points about one-night stands but also some bullshit clearly pulled out of thin air, particularly number 3. He's saying something is wrong with a girl for getting into a one-night stand, but girls just like sex the same as guys do. Who gives a fuck? You couldn't meet someone cool in a one-night stand? In my case we cuddled for ~30 minutes afterwards and she was actually pretty fun to talk to (Imagine that "PUA's", girls are more than fucktoys), I enjoyed the cuddling/bullshitting as much if not more than as the sex. She was that cool. If I was looking to date someone I would have pressed the issue with her, why should I fault her because she was attracted to me and didn't make an arbitrary time frame on when it's OK to sleep with someone you're attracted to?

  • During this entire ~20 minute or so pickup, the original "prime target" was about 5 feet behind me facing my way. It will be interesting to see if what she saw increases my value in her eyes or makes me look like a sleaze. Maybe both? I'll see her again sometime in the future, so I'll be interested to find out.