Ex-GF Friend Off-Limits

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-09-29T17:29:00+00:00

I tell her, boldly.... "M I'm extremely interested in hooking up with you, I think you very attractive..

Yeah, that was a mistake. You "confessed your feelings" which always puts a woman on the defensive. You tried to make her decide whether she wants to have sex with you, and you tried to get her to say it. You made her use rational, logical mental processes to evaluate an emotional decision.

Don't do that.

Canei · 2012-09-29T16:36:52+00:00

Hooking up with her friend will hurt your ex. Know that and make your decision.

jewfro667 · 2012-09-29T15:13:34+00:00

Kill your ex.

Kidding, don't do that.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-09-29T21:58:57+00:00

Let me translate into a metaphor what you just posted:

I am thirsty, I want coke, but I only have water around. What should I do?

If I were to ask you that question, you would probably reply to me: DUDE! Either drink the water, or go out and get your coke! End of story.

So, either you make your move with this girl, or any other girl in your circle; or you go outside your circle and do game there. Or both.

SelfProclaimedPUA · 2012-09-29T17:15:38+00:00

My advice, don't go knocking off girls in your friend group. Sounds like you already did once, and almost fucked it all up for yourself by dating one and now look at you, "This makes it difficult to have other females come hang out (that I'd be interested in) because our group is very exclusive."

Yeah, it's hard not to, but keep it in your pants. Use these chicks as your "go-to" for hanging out with girls that you find yourself interested in. I recently didn't follow my own advice, and its still biting me in the ass.

kLinus · 2012-09-29T17:15:07+00:00

As a man who gave my ex-GF her first orgasm let me tell you, feelsgoodman.jpg. But, the increase in pride is probably not worth hurting your ex-GF's feelings.

kreptlol · 2012-09-29T22:13:59+00:00

If you cared about her so much you wouldn't even consider it. Honestly I wouldn't bother, it has the possibility to bring too much drama that'll affect not just you, but your whole little social group.

Don't be desperate man, it'll be a fucked up thing to do to your ex. There's plenty of girls out there. I'm sure if she slept with one of your friends you'd go batshit

OmegleMeisterGC · 2012-10-02T14:47:31+00:00

So I ended up hooking up with another girl outside our friend group. It was good because it made me realize how I still cared about my ex. We're dating again! Asked her out yesterday. Then told her how I hooked up with a different girl the previous day. She didn't care. I'm just worried that I'll get bummed if I miss out on a situation I could be in, e.g a hot threesome hahaha.

Title	Ex-GF Friend Off-Limits
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Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	September 29, 2012 2:32 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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