How do you put girls you hooked up with in the friendzone?

PLplotsOTS · 2012-10-17T05:59:35+00:00

Don't hook up with them again.

Turquill · 2012-10-17T04:02:35+00:00

Just act like a friend if that's all they really are to you, don't have sex with them even if they ask for it.

Freevoulous · 2012-10-17T10:03:05+00:00

"but not actually have sex with them anymore"

care to explain why? Is there something wrong with them, or are they turning into a OAG-type? I don't see a point why one would completely reject female SEXUAL advances, unless one is in a commited monogamous relationship with someone else. This is both unpractical, and hurtful for the girl.

2012-10-17T14:39:40+00:00

Possible? YES!

Easy? Depends on how you hooked up in the past.

A few scenarios:

ONS: women tend to obliterate these from their memories, so if you were strangers before the ONS, and.. then that was it, she will probably NOT wanted to be reminded of it, therefore: no friendship.
If you were friends and hooked up once, and than had the talk that it was a mistake and you should continue as if it never happened, YES.
If you were/are FWB, hooking up because of convenience without entanglements, if you played cool as friends, and she didn't become overly attached, yes indeed.
If you led her on, so that she was hoping that what you had was the beginning of something more and deeper (a relationship) while you just enjoyed getting your dick wet with her and other women... she'll feel as if she was manipulated.. again, I am a guy like you, so it doesn't matter what I, or any other guy like you things, what she feels is what counts, and most probably it would end any friendly contacts.

A better question to ask is How do I hookup casually with a woman as FWB? And that questions has been discussed in /r/seduction before.

This might help: FWB: this is what works for me

-Redfish · 2012-10-17T07:04:34+00:00

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Title	How do you put girls you hooked up with in the friendzone?
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Date	October 17, 2012 3:54 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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