Is this a shit test?

exponential_gain · 2012-11-04T00:23:56+00:00

She's into you bro go for it. "Here I was thinking you were the kind of girl that liked to play rough" Depending on how she responds, you might wanna tone it down a little, but I think she's just doing what girls do.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-11-04T04:34:39+00:00

Leave them better than you found them is a good principle to leave by.

And that applies to each and every interaction. Do you think that by saying mean things to her, even just joking, you leave her better that you found her? I think not.

I don't know if she's going a shit test to you, but it seems like you are doing a shit test to her.

Have fun talking about possible futures between the two of you *Can you imagine if we ever break us badly that we can't stand each other.... " (presupposes that you have had a relationship of some sort...) "...and then we end up working for the same company? That would be c-r-a-z-y!"

Just to give an example.

That's my style, your style might vary, what's important is: is what you are doing working for you?

2012-11-04T02:25:33+00:00

It's just an indirect way of her saying she would like you to spank her.

LollipopVodka · 2012-11-06T17:55:55+00:00

 Really don't see why the idea of insulting/being negative towards someone you want to get with is so popular.  Those playful insults that she is responding to... Well, it's possible that she is just laughing or joking back because she is uncomfortable.. Then when she gets on Facebook, she feels safer, and she can say what she really feels. Or that she is giving you the benefit of the doubt, thinking that you were rude to her because you were nervous, and now, on Facebook, you have the chance to be honest, and redeem yourself.  I've had guys do this to me, countless times. When you're being passive-aggressive, you can only expect her to respond in a way that's a bit confusing, because she is possibly hurt and confused.  When *I'm* picking up a girl, the teasing/wittiness comes in, but in a much different way. I don't need to put HER down, to make myself look better. If you can't get her by playing fair, on an equal playing field, I don't think you really deserve it at all.   You can say a compliment, a real compliment, something good about her, and then slowly make things more sensual. Not sexual, it's too early for that.. Sensual. Make it clear that you find her attractive, instead of making her confused on whether you are making fun of her or actually enjoy her company/find her attractive.

Freevoulous · 2012-11-05T17:32:19+00:00

In situations like that I use something I would call "Sugar & Chilli", that is, I mix strong compliments with strong Negging/teasing.

"Damn, you are so cute! Shame you're sucha dork at the same time."

"You know what I hate about you? That you are being an obnoxious smartass, you're annoying, and that I want to kiss you so bad."

respond to an insult: "ya know, just because you are fuckin sexy does not mean you can talk to me like that. Apologize."

"I cant figure you out. Sometimes you say or do something so frickin brilliant I want to have sex with your brain, and sometimes you act like a total retard."

wopchop87 · 2012-11-04T09:57:37+00:00

If she's taking time out of her day to message you..regardless of what the message is (unless it's like "I fuckin hate you, stop talking to me), it means she was thinking about you, which in turn means she most likely wants your d lol

Title	Is this a shit test?
Author	Flagelo
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	November 3, 2012 10:32 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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