Don't get too excited, or too frustrated. Learning Game can be exhausting. Here is why and how to find balance.

PUAIT · 2012-11-27T02:33:47+00:00

(College student) This is fantastic and exactly what I needed. I started on inner game first- went from having some fluff, dressing like a hobo, and just walking a never ending treadmill and calling it life. When I first got into the game, I had some near-immediate successes, make-outs three weeks in a row. Since then? Almost squat- albeit im only out one night per-week. Now I have been working out for months- fluff is gone, I dress well, clothes that fit me, and I am always looking for new people to meet/talk with/get to know. Overall? I am happier- this became apparant to me when I went to a dance party, and danced like an idiot for two hours, at one point with a professional dancer (HB7), and everyone including myself had an amazing time. Prior to this, I would have crawled along the outside of the room. But my emotional states swing non stop. This was an amazing read for me.

barddman · 2012-11-27T02:39:02+00:00

And when you do meet a hot girl, do not run fantasy scenarios about how awesome it will be once you hook up over and over in your head. You’re asking for a brutal state crash if she flakes on you. Just be happy that life is grand, you’re alive and working on your goal of creating an awesome life of adventure and joy and girls and freedom. You’re working on it. That’s all that matters.

This, this a gazillion times x 1000, and maybe even more

nycprowl · 2012-11-27T04:10:59+00:00

This has described me to the t. Add a touch of self disappointment for failing to approach and then i just feel like shit the rest of the night regardless of how much fun i had. It makes me not approach because i can't handle the emotions that come with it.

its important to remember its just a game but even then its tough. I'm trying to find this balance but not sure how.

krypto1339 · 2012-11-27T06:12:05+00:00

As someone who has been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder, much of my life (in and out of game) has been a quest for some kind of balance. For obvious reasons, this article was great.

ikkake · 2012-11-27T13:40:13+00:00

I'm actually taking a break after few months of dissapointments as my initial approach was really wrong, as I feel really tired and demotivated at this moment. Nice article to read before I jump back on the horse.

Title	Don't get too excited, or too frustrated. Learning Game can be exhausting. Here is why and how to find balance.
Author	TonyDAbsolute
Upvotes	62
Comments	5
Date	November 27, 2012 12:15 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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