I was in a 3 month LTR that was fairly dramatic (I was settling and playing it cool, she...wasn't.) And that recently ended. I attempted to get over the hump by making advances toward someone who had shown interest in the past, but I waited too long and got friendzoned. I'm okay with that.

What I'm not okay with is the oneitis that followed and how it appears that whatever previous game I had keeps getting deconstructed in my head by trying to analyze why it works instead of acting. How do I put a stop to this?