Had 2nd meet with girl last Sunday night, fclosed and slept over at hers. She messaged me a few hours later so I take this is a good indicator she wants to see me again. I asked her out again on Wednesday (for a night in aka netflix and chill). She responds quickly saying yes.

The trouble has been getting her to commit to an actual night. Without boring you with the details, in between general chat (initiated by her), ive directly or indirectly tried to set a night 3 times and she hasn't given me a straight answer. I fully accept there's a decent chance she's no longer interested but she has behaved like this before with the date going ahead so I'm not 100% out yet. I can take rejection but hate being strung along.

Would it be acceptable to call her out (assertively but not aggressively)? Something like "Idk if you're playing games here or if you've genuinely got a really unorganised schedule but ive got a lot to fit in next week so get back to me ASAP please". Or would this be too needy and should i just wait even longer (it's honestly starting to piss me off a little)?

Tl;dr: Girl I've already fclosed agrees to meet again 4 days ago. Shows plenty IOIs but seems to be avoiding setting an actual date. I can take rejection but can't stand being strung along. Would it be acceptable to assertively (but not aggressively) push her for an answer or would this be too needy and be better to just wait even longer?