Is this a shit or comfort test?

CainPrice · 2018-10-01T01:33:08+00:00

You blew her off completely with an offensive insult. She asked if you missed her, and you replied "as much as I enjoy having root canals". You weren't playful or funny. You pretty much directly said, "Not at all, bitch. Being around you was like dental work. Quit bothering me."

When she texts "have you missed me", that's clearly a probe for availability. If you're down, text back, "stop by my place at 9:30 with wine if you want to find out". If you're not, just ignore her text.

The only reason any guy would send her the message you sent is if you're completely done with her and want to run her off so she stops bothering you.

YallmindifIhitthat · 2018-10-01T01:24:09+00:00

The root canal line was probably a bit much and most likely offended her more than she found it witty and playfully teasing. I would say it’s a comfort test. Maybe should have replayed with something like “well bring over some drinks to mine tonight and I’ll show you”. Something playful but still deflecting. Just keep going about your life. Might take a week or two but she’ll initiate contact again. Keep it light, meet up, have sex.

datchung1 · 2018-10-01T02:08:46+00:00

U fucked up

actually-guy · 2018-10-01T03:03:54+00:00

This place does crack me up! There is such a fine line, a sweet spot that nearly no one hits. Either OP plays it too soft and he's called a beta cuck. Or he plays it too hard and everyone is like "wtf, are you some kind of asshole? She just wanted some comfort. You MONSTER!!"

LOL Good luck OP, you can probably patch this up by softening up - but only a tiny bit!! :-)

MiZiSTiK · 2018-10-01T03:56:37+00:00

Sounds like autism

Title	Is this a shit or comfort test?
Author	TheTrenTrannyTrain
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	October 1, 2018 1:14 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9kbwhi/is_this_a_shit_or_comfort_test/
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