How can I text a girl to confirm plans we made a few days ago?

PUA_watchdog · 2013-01-09T11:17:14+00:00

Don't act needy.

"Yo sweet cheeks, there's a rad party at 8 which we both need to liven up tonight. I will pick you up at 7."

That's it. You are creating a bubble between both of you. And you are leading it. And you are not begging her and coming across as needy either.

If she doesn't reply you back, forget her; move on. Next girl please.

Text game normally works only if you have established your value and attraction when in person. This is why most of the seduction work should be done in the field. And by most I mean 99% of the whole seduction part. So, if you find a girl flaking through the text game, you didn't really do a good job in field. If you owned in field, there's no way she will ignore you unless she is in some stuck in something really serious.

Text whatever you want to text which doesn't make you look needy.

Always have crisis plans ready. It helps in situations like this.

dimonk · 2013-01-09T23:46:28+00:00

It's always good to confirm a date on the day of the date. But stop looking for a "seductive" text to send. That's needy and chodey. You can't say "we still on for tonight" if you didn't even give her a place to go. Give her a place and to go to before the day of the date and the meeting time. And then on day of date just go to the date. Don't be worried she'll forget. That's neediness. You should feel that she likes you and because of that she won't flake. If she does, fuck her and move on.

nittutt · 2013-01-09T15:12:13+00:00

Do it like Zan. Invite her. Extend an invitation, after that, it's up to her.

puntingbaxter · 2013-01-09T17:01:50+00:00

Just ask her straight up.

"You coming?"

You only look needy by the way you react if she rejects you.

RaginBROner · 2013-01-09T21:51:11+00:00

If the plans were soft I would blow her off before she blows you off but if you think they were solid enough I'd shoot her a text along the lines of I hope you are excited for tonight (nickname) or depending on what you are doing you can always say hope you have your dancing shoes on for tonight...blah blah blah either way its better than we still on for tonight.

Either way if you didn't build enough attraction blow her off here and act like it wasn't even a solid plan and she will probably text you like you didnt even make plans.

SupALupRT · 2013-01-10T16:46:08+00:00

I always do the "see ya at 7 so and so."

2013-01-09T13:29:08+00:00

yea, its meh....just cancel on her... she'll act like its no big deal...don't tell her why...she'll ask why, thinking its another chick... then just reel her in...

Title	How can I text a girl to confirm plans we made a few days ago?
Author	Nimbino
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	January 9, 2013 10:47 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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