I never submit content to seddit but today I wanted to share some thoughts. I heard this phrase "Losing all hope is freedom" from Fight Club today and something really clicked for me. In order to succeed, and I mean TRULY SUCCEED in this game, you need to give up. I don't mean give up on learning and advancing as a PUA. I mean you must give up on hope and give up on trying for the sole purpose of getting women. It is so much more than that. My theory is that in order to become great you must go through the bullshit of approaching and rejection and suffering for ONE THING--YOURSELF. That is the only way to get good. Of course, women will drive you to better yourself, BUT doing it for the sole purpose of honing a craft will yield you much better results. What I mean is being "outcome independent". I know RSD pushes this logic all the time but today I have truly understood it. In order to get the best results you have to truly be careless regarding outcome. Do you know why? Because not caring about what happens shows that you have an abundance of women on tap and it doesn't effect you. In order for this vibe to really emanate off you, you must be careless to the core. This is why hitting the perfect drunk puts you in god mode when you're gaming (if you drink). When you are perfectly buzzed you stop giving a fuck while you also have the ability to form coherent thoughts. A.K.A the perfect drunk. I'm sorry if I'm rambling but I am at the perfect drunk for writing right now. My main point is this---> Stop caring about the outcome of all interactions. Do it for you and only you. Break the social matrix and people WILL accept it (regardless of what you think will happen). Escalate with strangers and watch what happens when you don't give a fuck. If it's normal to you, other people will surprisingly accept your reality. This has been said before but this subreddit needs a kick in the ass.