So it's been quite some time since I wrote an FR, mostly because I've been in a slump and haven't been out meeting ladies much (I've been out, but not meeting or approaching).

First Girl

I decided to change that tonight. I go out to this club that I like, and there are cute girls everywhere. I'm out of it as I'm mad tired, but I tear up the dance floor and just legitimately have fun. At one point, I see this girl glance over at me, I take that as an invitation to start dancing with her. I grab her hand, and we dance for a little while.

We kept getting separated (the place was a bit rowdy) but we'd find each other and continue dancing. However I failed to escalate with her enough and we get separated again. I bump into her again later, outside, but she's chatting up some dude pretty hard. I should have went over, but I didn't.

Shy Girl

I go back in, and see a girl looking kind of shy, playing on her phone. I take that as an opportunity to chat her up, asking her a question. I NEED TO LEARN HOW TO BE MORE DIRECT. I'M WAY TOO INDIRECT we chat for a while, she kept scanning the room but still seemed interested enough (didn't eject) but we hit a lot of lulls. I tried to push through said lulls, but then the club closes and we all get kicked out. I'm outside with friends, and I see her standing around.

SHE WANTS ME TO APPROACH AND GET HER NUMBER

She is literally standing outside with 2 friends, waiting, and no one else is really around. I hesitated again in going to talk to her, and I actually feel kind of like a jerk about it. Sucks I hesitated, but kind of good to have that mentality of "she's literally waiting for me, and I'm a jerk for not closing".

Things I need to Work On

-Obviously, not hesitating. How do you keep yourself out of your head and just fucking do it?

-Direct game. My shit is way too indirect.

-Approaching more. This was my first time in MONTHS actually going with an approach, and I feel good to get out of this fucking lull, but I'm obviously a bit rusty.