I was out this evening with a girl whom I've been hanging out with casually. She called me up to hang out before class, so I agreed to meet her.

Things were going good. Was flirting for the most part. But for some reason I just snapped out of a good mood when she mentioned hanging with some guy that speaks her first language (foreign exchange from Russia), and chatting with a cashier in a flirty way (contrary to her usual shy/indifferent behavior), which were probably shit tests because i know shes insecure. I know I shouldn't care, but it did in fact bother me.. I'm aware that I shouldn't mind at all and I'm sure its just my ego, I'm confused. It was weird to say the least. Whatever, but my state wavered so its become a concern.

Anyways, I didn't flip out or anything. If anything I just remained polite but I was more noticeably cold compared to being confident and outgoing. Luckily it happened towards the end of our time. Anybody have 2 cents?