This is part 3 of my goal of 30 field reports to track my progress, I find it more motivating and a way to gauge what I need to work on

I wasn't going to go originally tonight after being completely exhausted all day. Honestly all I wanted to do was sleep... but some friends texted me, and I decided fuck it, I'm going to party.

I wind up meeting a few girls through some friends and I dance with one for a bit, but she seems a little drunk (but pretty awesome). Unfortunately I hesitated in asking for her # (I really need to work on this...) and then she sort of left everyone pretty abruptly and was like "OK BYE!" Ah well.

Wind up dancing a bit and escalating with a girl I know from a club however I cannot isolate her at all, and by the end of the night she mentioned that she wanted to hang out sometime during the week with me. Awesome. Logistics though kept her from hanging out with us the rest of the night.

As we're leaving I see a pretty cute girl walking behind me, I open her up, and she is receptive, chatting us up. My friends rush ahead to grab a cab, and she's still trying to hang out with me. Her friends come rushing over the same time mine do and both are like "we got a cab lets go" and practically tear us away. Yay Logistics!

Things to Work On

  • Opening more girls, really my cold approaches haven't been many.

-Escalating faster and closing quicker. I hesitate to much and then the opportunity is gone.

-I'm not sure there was much I could have done with the girl at the end, everything happened so fast. We barely got a chance to talk even though we seemed to be kicking it off well. Oh well.