Had a recent success that seemed far too easy, but it's proof that confidence is where everything begins

2013-02-11T21:40:20+00:00

I really like the "put your phone in my number" part. I've heard that women have a thing for lysdexia

Praxiss · 2013-02-11T21:12:38+00:00

And now comes the flake...

2013-02-12T00:51:49+00:00

Not to rain on your parade or anything, but it's entirely possible she either just thought you were good-looking, and the phone number was purely shallow, or she didn't want to look like a cunt in front of the 10 other girls and has no genuine desire to go...

Still took massive balls though. That was epic in-and-of-itself.

bluehat9 · 2013-02-12T07:08:37+00:00

For those asking for a follow up, I now have time to post it (I was a little rushed typing the post this morning so I didn't have time to fill this in)

I texted her the next morning and she responded and showed up with her team to watch our team play. Conveniently enough I'm injured and not able to play for a couple more weeks so I got to spend the whole game chatting with her. We had a pretty solid connection and by the end of the game things were going great. It then started to rain super hard, so my team opted not to play the rest of our games. I told her that she could bring her team to one of my teammate's house where we were staying and we could hang out before they hit the road back to their school. She said sure and so we went back to the house.

The atmosphere at the house was really relaxed and I started to kino relatively effortlessly, primarily because we had formed such a strong verbal connection earlier that day. A little bit of kissing and some feeling back and forth was soon cut short, far too early in my opinion, because her teammates said they had to leave to avoid bad weather. Fortunately our teams will end up at some tournaments together in the future so I'll likely see her again. Now the only issue is to determine how much communication I should keep going between us via Facebook/texting in the meantime.

Overall it went really well, I feel as though I probably could have f-closed if given more time, but with the given circumstances I was happy with the way things turned out and the future certainly does hold some possibilities.

TheCuriousDude · 2013-02-11T20:00:54+00:00

Congrats, bro. I know there isn't much to analyze here, but this post definitely shows what confidence and a don't-give-a-fuck frame does for you. I feel like some dudes over-think things. This whole subreddit could really be summed up to:

confidence
unbreakable frame
escalation
logistics

Now all you have to do is have fun in that game, keep yourself in a confident state, and ask her out after the game. If for some reason she still has any hesitation, make it a group date/hang-out to make her more comfortable and try to isolate later.

evergonitenitenigga · 2013-02-12T18:32:04+00:00

THIS. this people. OP is good example. but what is the "key" to doing this? he said "I rarely do stuff like this, but I was feeling really good Saturday..." what ever it is that made OP feel really good is what seddit and self improvement is all about. you improve aspects in your life, then you feel confident, and then you feel really good, and then you do stuff like this, boss stuff.

good job OP

topspin424 · 2013-02-12T06:33:45+00:00

The very next day...

Title	Had a recent success that seemed far too easy, but it's proof that confidence is where everything begins
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	47
Comments	16
Date	February 11, 2013 7:42 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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