Seddit, how do I give a kick ass massage?

alphaChompy · 2013-02-12T15:28:43+00:00

apply tongue to clitoris

2013-02-12T07:25:15+00:00

The most important part of a good massage is finding tension (make sure it's not bone) and applying pressure. Squeeze with the base of your palm. Using your thumbs will tire you out, which is fine if you are giving a short massage, but if she wants a legit one, you will kill yourself just using your thumbs/fingers.

Importnat note on back massages: NEVER MASSAGE THE SPINE. People do this so often, they find the spine and just press and rub. Somewhere between the spine and the shoulderblades.

explore someone's back/neck sometimes with your hands casually. you'll find muscles and be able to visualize them and you'll learn where the knots happen. next to the shoulder blade and the shoulder are the main ones.

Push/squeeze as hard as they can stand/are comfortable with.

mike311 · 2013-02-12T17:03:13+00:00

I am a massage therapist and here are some tips:

1)Avoid using your thumbs, and don't bend over. This will wreak havoc on your body. Try to have short finger nails, so you don't cut her up with your nails.

2) You want all your pressure to come from your center of your body, don't try to use just your upper body strength, but use your core muscles.

3)Have your g/f lie on her back. Warm up her back muscles by doing compressions. Some good moves, make your hand look like a paw, and do a motion called "cat's paw's" from the base of her neck all the way down to her butt. Also do the cat paw motion on the shoulders very gently. Also a little light energy work can make her super relaxed, put one hand at the top of the spine and one at the bottom and gently rock your client. NEVER apply direct pressure on the spine.

4)After you have her relaxed, use a good oil or lotion to lube up your hands for glide, then use very broad hand strokes going up and down her back. Look up on you tube shingles massage stroke, and tree stroking. Put both of your hands at the base of her butt on both sides of the spine, kinda stick your fingers in the muscle to the sides of the spine( called the erector spinae group) and "drag" your fingers all the way up the base of the scalp and gently pull.

5) Another good stroke to use, it called dual thumb strokes. I know I said to avoid using your thumbs, but this shit feels so good she will love it, basically in-between her should blades and her spine make a wind-shield wiper motion with your thumbs, do this all around the shoulder-blade and spine.

6) Lastly, just have fun with it, use your fist, elbows, forearms. I hope this helped.

xjackfx · 2013-02-12T12:33:11+00:00

Use oil! Best tip, it makes it faaar more sensual. Ansel do a 2in1 massage oil and lube, here in Australia, so you can go from massage to massage whenever your ready. But massage makes girls super wet anyway. And kiss her earlobe

salem2474 · 2013-02-12T15:41:43+00:00

Good advice on here. Also, get a few professional massages and try reverse engineer it.

I recovered from an injury, and learned to massage my own pain this way. The techniques I learned Work equally well on girls.

Lavandergooms · 2013-02-12T06:27:27+00:00

For shoulders put your fingers on the top part of the shoulders kind of close to the neck. Your palms are facing downwards. Now use your thumbs to dig gently into the space in between the shoulder blades and rotate your thumbs while maintaining that firm pressure. Keep talking while you're massaging and you're good to go.

You want to use the joint of your thumb and not the actual point. Other body parts follow the same general rule, just local pressure from hands and then specific pressure from thumbs.

evasque2 · 2013-02-12T10:49:03+00:00

The best thing you can do is first start off asking how they like to be massaged: Hard or soft. This can differ from person to person, then the rest becomes circular motions with your finger tips for neck, shoulders and then use palms for lower back and use a light spreading towards the sides motion with your palms for the middle back section.

GentLemonArtist · 2013-02-12T09:21:42+00:00

palms of your hands

dumblederp · 2013-02-12T14:27:16+00:00

Lookup the trigger points of upper trapezius, levator scapulae, suprespinatus, infraspinatus, and rhomboids. triggerpoint.net I believe.

sedditpadawan · 2013-02-12T15:58:52+00:00

Arch your fucking palms and apply. So many people have an inclination to use their fingers and it's uncomfortable as hell, especially if you're a novice.

tylergesselman · 2013-02-12T20:10:17+00:00

I have a secret move when massaging a girl. Put your fingers on her shoulders and back. Then push with each individual finger and walk down from her shoulders and down her back. Don't get too low because it can be ticklish.

Filipino girl taught me how to do it, I call it the dancing fingers.

chromecorporate · 2013-02-12T21:23:52+00:00

googled and found http://www.ehowtomassage.net

Although i think trying to get too professional is a waste of time and a massage should segway right into something more.

Title	Seddit, how do I give a kick ass massage?
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Date	February 12, 2013 5:58 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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