Lurker for awhile. I'm a not a complete beginner (can make eye contact fairly easily, strike up conversation with strangers, have had serious relationships) but I still have loads to learn. I'm currently reading "The Game" and its well worth it. To the question! I'll be going to a college party tonight (don't go very often if at all) and am looking for a quick guide to party going. Things to focus on, goals by end of the night, whatever. Hit me with what you think are the most important things you could tell me in 5 min for going to a party. Cheers!