In a few hours I will turn 21, I want to know how girls in bars typically act towards men who try to pick them up.

Mr_Zarika · 2013-03-01T01:53:36+00:00

Wow, you just assume everyone is a certain way? Maybe you should just stay home pal. ;)

People are all different. Do you think you're an interesting person? Will you be in a club at some point in the future?

I will say that the club vibe is sexual, so guys are girls are looking to pick up. Girls, being the "keepers of sex", tend to be more on the defensive at clubs. If you know how to use this, you can turn that into your advantage.

I see a girl shoot down 5 girls in an evening? At the end of the night I walk up, "Wow, I'm just leaving, but thanks for the entertainment tonight."

"Excuse me?"

"I loved watching you shut down all those guys! Did they have any good lines?"

Be fun, don't be so judgy and serious.

(And keep these stupid questions for the Seddit Newbie Threads)

2013-03-01T02:08:11+00:00

I'm sure this varies a lot based on the type of bar and your location but for where I live, and the average bar a 21 year old chick will go, you'll find a lot of them are extremely up themselves and rude. I'm often quite discussed at the way girls feel they can act and even what they get away with in bars and clubs.

I've had girls hit me, flip me off and tell security I'm harassing them for just asking how their night is going. They also tend to have bitch shields to max, I kind of like this though because it screens the chodes at least.

Having said that a lot of the girls you'll find at bars and clubs can be really sweet. I find 11-12 to be the best time for them because the girls haven't been hit on 1000+ times by a bunch of drunk chodes, they're still pretty sober themselves and they're happy to talk to cool a guy.

Here are some tips I can think of when I'm gaming 'club-bitches' that might help...

A lot of them will either be very cold with you or not even respond when you initially approach. This isn't because they're rejecting you, it's because they have already had 100+ drunk guys who have drunkly came up to them with some sleazily one liner and they're sick of it. Most chodes will just run out of set when they don't get a good response so that's why they do it. You're not a chode, so just keep pushing. I've had girls tell me to fuck off one minute and within the next they'll be DTF =] Of course, if you suspect a girl really wants you to fuck off, you should probably leave but they're often just testing. =)

You'll find they're extremely desensitised to club make outs. A lot of chicks will make out with you and 10 minutes later when you reopen they won't even remember your face. You need to be different to the other guys. Do something funny like pick her up and pin her against the wall for a bit, or if she's wearing a short skirt there are other things you could try..

Get her number right away! If she's "just going to the toilet", or "checking on her friend", assume you'll never see her again. She's drunk and probably feeling sick and wants to go home soon, or her friend is having a shit night and wants to leave. She might honestly want to catch up with you later but there is a chance something will happen and you just won't. So get her number straight away!

Good luck!

rmbarnes · 2013-03-02T12:26:08+00:00

Go and find out for yourself.

readonlyuser · 2013-03-03T09:10:10+00:00

I just picture the majority [of] girls in bars as being obnoxious, rude and ignorant.

Stop making excuses and go out and try it for yourself. If you're looking for something bad, you'll find it one way or another.

Title	In a few hours I will turn 21, I want to know how girls in bars typically act towards men who try to pick them up.
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Date	March 1, 2013 1:35 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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